我真的想娶她... ...作者: O'Neil 时间: 2002-10-21 20:08
In today's socity, it is rare to find emotional man like you taking the relationship still serious.作者: Wailingwall 时间: 2002-10-21 21:25
女人需要的是感觉，那是难以捉摸的东西。即使她们自己都说不清楚的。可能她只是为了摆脱那天的孤独吧，可能在国内的那份感情更让她难以忘怀吧，毕竟25岁的女生还是浪漫多于理性的。所以咯。。。如果爱她就去坚持。。或许哪天她感觉突然来了那。。WHO KNOWS作者: xiaoyue 时间: 2002-10-21 21:29
Hello Tsinghua Shi Ge
First, I am very impressed by your feelings and love towards this Shanghai girl... lucky her
Still, I would like to share the following with you and wish you could cheer up. Life is good and at the end of each day, your own happiness is the most important thing.
Cheer up... Live each day to its fullest and enjoy life.
Maybe Life wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us.
It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.作者: MJ 时间: 2002-10-21 22:00
because you are not that type she like. She is young, she is still have a dream to have perfect love.作者: 0o0 时间: 2002-10-21 22:10
25岁的女生现实的可怕！作者: richelye 时间: 2002-10-21 22:48
Corn:
以我的经验，你还是有机会的。1996年，我被公司从上海调去广州工作。当时我的男朋友和我所有的朋友都让我不要离开上海，但是为了能够在工作上有发展前途，我还是去了。离开上海的时候，也挺挂念男朋友的。可是分开两地久了，自然没有以前那种恋爱的感觉了。我们从男女朋友变成了一般朋友，而我在广州的时候，有个比我大13岁的peter追求我，有段时间我会矛盾不知取舍，后来我对peter说，从我们发生亲密关系1年起，如果1年后我们还是象现在这样好，我们就不分开了。之后，peter和我在1年后结婚了。因为大家都在一个沟通明了的状态中，距离近的会有优势。所以你还是很有机会的。顺便说一句，peter在遇到我之前，都是报定独身的，当你真的接受对方时，观念会变的。还有，上海的女人很小资的，向往一种比较舒逸，情调的生活方式。作者: phantom77 时间: 2002-10-21 23:51
上海女孩子, 都比较懂得享受生活(所谓的小资情调吧),特别是一些聪慧的女孩, 她们在感情上多数是摇摆不定的. 即使有了男朋友, 她们也会在其他的男孩中寻找更优秀的. 在爱情上,她们往往追求浪漫的感觉,但又是非常非常的现实, 处于矛盾之中.
我想,在她的眼里你也许是优秀的,所以你们之间既有互相欣赏,也有正常的生理需求. 但是回到现实中, 她可能自己已经作了比较(如在上海的男友,家庭因素,自己以后的发展,等等), 感觉是不可能的.作者: blueangell 时间: 2002-10-22 00:22
phantom,你.........好像蛮有经验的嘛 wink作者: 鱼腥草 时间: 2002-10-22 01:26
如果说相遇是注定的话，之后发生的一切便顺其自然。爱情中了游戏的圈套就会失去意义……作者: L’AUTOMNE 时间: 2002-10-22 11:42
1。女人与外交家：
3。 女人说“你真坏！”，实际上是意味着她喜欢你，但女人说：“你是个好人！”，那估计你没希望了。作者: wazi 时间: 2002-10-22 12:49
上海妹妹最爱，
肚兜短裤吊带，
只要心情不坏，
天天喜欢做爱，
姿势千奇百怪，
招招命中要害，
还非要和老外！作者: CNN 时间: 2002-10-22 13:35
Nice job, wazi!!作者: Juliet 时间: 2002-10-22 15:30
我觉得一个25岁的女人如果很成熟，就一定很世故。她想要的或许不仅是身份，稳定的生活，帅不帅的问题，还有很多别的，比如一定的社会地位（我只是猜）。她现在才25岁，当然明白还有很多选择机会的。作者: wang8 时间: 2002-10-22 15:57
1.78 M is not that tall.
your muscular may not be that muscular in that girls eyes.
tsinghua is not such a good school.
system engeneer working for csco doesn't sound that impressing.
self claimed good love making skill may not be that skillful.
so the question remains, "you qualification maybe ok for some chinese but will a shanghainese marry you?"作者: 世风日下 时间: 2002-10-22 17:56
Wang8, you are really a philosopher.作者: fallen_angel 时间: 2002-10-22 19:51
Correct me if I am wrong. All I got from what you wrote, is that, you are handsome, tall, rich, with a loving heart, and she is not so pretty, chubby, poor student. You think you are more competitive than her, but she doesn't want to marry a stud like you.
Handsome, tall, rich doesn't make you a better man... There's something called personality... "反正当时我并没有认真的念头" from this I can't see you don't have a great personality to love. I think she is smart, she can see that you won't be the one to share life together.
and I don't like the topic you entitled. Love has nothing to do with where she came from. Does the title means you are ashamed to love someone from Shanghai, or proud to love someone from shanghai?
There's a great sound is perfectly for you, by Shania Twain-- that don't impress me much
I've known a few guys who thought they were pretty smart
But you've got being right down to an art
You think you're a genius-you drive me up the wall
You're a regular original, a know-it-all
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're special
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're something else
Okay, so you're a rocket scientist
That don't impress me much
So you got the brain but have you got the touch
Don't get me wrong, yeah I think you're alright
But that won't keep me warm in the middle of the night
That don't impress me much
I never knew a guy who carried a mirror in his pocket
And a comb up his sleeve-just in case
And all taht extra hold gel in your hair oughtta lock it
'Cause Heaven forbid it should fall outta place
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're special
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're something else
Okay, so you're Brad Pitt
That don't impress me much
So you got the looks but have you got the touch
Don't get me wrong, yeah I think you're alright
But that won't keep me warm in the middle of the night
That don't impress me much
You're one of those guys who likes to shine his machine
You make me take off my shoes before you let me get in
I can't believe you kiss your car good night
C'mon baby tell me-you must be jokin', right!
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're special
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're something else
Okay, so you've got a car
That don't impress me much
So you got the moves but have you got the touch
Don't get me wrong, yeah I think you're alright
But that won't keep me warm in the middle of the night
That don't impress me much
You think you're cool but have you got the touch
Don't get me wrong, yeah I think you're alright
But that won't keep me warm on the long, cold, lonely night
That don't impress me much
Okay, so what do you think you're Elvis or something...
Whatever
That don't impress me作者: ken8023 时间: 2002-10-22 20:33
找到爱，当然是好事情。但怎样控制自己去爱，学会保护自己才是真。上海女人，很现实的，现实的你都无法想象。我刚刚分手的女朋友就是上海人。我了解的。作者: pj 时间: 2002-10-22 21:11
"我有一份挺像样的工作, 在Cisco作系统工程师"
"毕竟我32岁了, 知道如何让女人快乐. "
"我是一个太冷静理性的人"
"我能给她一个稳定的生活, 给她一个身份, 我1米82, 很健壮, 身体很好, 也可以算是挺帅的. 而且即使我没有什么, 我也会为了她去努力的, "
我怎么觉得有点象征婚启示？不太象真实的心情故事！！！作者: 世风日下 时间: 2002-10-23 00:45
以下文章为转贴：
回到主题，就像一个阿拉伯人要求一个欧美女子成为他妻室中的一员，会有什么结果，同样如果一个不具备成为上海女婿的人向某上海姑娘求爱会有什么结果。作者: blueangell 时间: 2002-10-23 08:34
Agree with fallen_angel and I don't like the topic you entitled either. The topic shows that you are just an ordinary man, however your job is ... ...
You may be a good man but not good enough to deserve a good and smart girl. There IS a kind of girl who will immediately say "Yes" when you propose to her with your "身份"，"1米82","身体很好", of course including some Shanghai girls. But not this one.
Feel sad for you because you have the ability to find a good woman but do not have the ability to win her heart. That's one of the worst things in this world.作者: whamor 时间: 2002-10-23 10:58
听一个朋友说他朋友的上海老婆常叱喝他干活。大家小心被奴役啊。
不过发现上海女孩挑老公的时候是比较的理性，不像普通女孩那样的感性。 :cool:
（惨了，不知道会不会被朋友用西瓜砸死。。。 :p ）作者: caprion 时间: 2002-10-23 11:50
Now it looks the topic changed to Shanghai girl now. fallen_angel, i am sure you are a shanghainess, don't copy other people's article and paste in BBS.
corn: Continue to f*uck this shanghai girl untill she ask you to marry her. She is not pretty, she is not smart, she is dumb.作者: nortel8 时间: 2002-10-23 12:09
I am pretty sure I slept with this girl when I was at Montreal, she is good love-maker. Corn, you can make her pregant and then say the you had wang8's baby!!作者: grammar 时间: 2002-10-23 12:40
Fallen-angle did a good job. That song is exactly for those who think themselves are something.
I also don't understand why he put the location in the title. I don't see if she is a typical shanghainese girl! When it comes to love, there is no reason. No matter where is she from and no matter how excellent you think of yourself.作者: bukit 时间: 2002-10-23 13:10
不在乎自己的女人不是处女的男人不是真正的男人。懂得享受性的女人？Sainte Catherine 街上多得是，都娶回家？作者: bihappy 时间: 2002-10-23 13:21
照bukit的观点，真正的男人都是中国卫道士。那个真正的女人会对他们感兴趣？作者: bukit 时间: 2002-10-23 19:46
照双喜的观点，真正的女人都是随便和男人上床的女人？或者说和不止一个男人上床的女人才是真正的女人？ eek!作者: corn 时间: 2002-10-23 21:18
我读了大家的看法. 可能我不该用上海女人为题吧.
It really doesn't matter whether she is from Shanghai or not. What's more important is that you find the one that makes your heart smile.
Don’t go for looks; they can deceive.
Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away.
Go for someone who can make you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
Cheer up and be happy! Look at the maple leaves and enjoy the blue sky.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past. Don't look at the closed door for too long.
So when it is time to move on, let go of your past failures and heartaches.
Also, just a side note: I don't want to comment on a girl who claims that she has a boy friend but at the same time, sleeps with other people... :confused:
Wear your glasses and look closer eek!作者: yiyu 时间: 2002-10-23 21:42
我觉得这个故事是真实的。作者: xiaoyue 时间: 2002-10-23 21:47
I think it is a true story as well... That's why I made the effort to register myself with Sinoquebec... hopefully, it is worth the efforts What's your say, Corn :confused:作者: pathfinder 时间: 2002-10-23 21:59
如果你想锻炼你的恋爱技巧, 去追上海作(平声)女人.作者: 小小天使 时间: 2002-10-23 22:00
the story is true or not shouldn't be difficult to find out, since i have a few friends at Cisco, and i know most students here from shanghai, especially he mentioned she’s only been here 3 months.作者: bihappy 时间: 2002-10-23 22:20
bukit: 你把"随便上床"跟"非处女"划上了等号，这是对所有女性的不尊重，包括你的母亲。作者: SpringYi 时间: 2002-10-23 22:38
一帮傻男傻女在出馊主意...
Good luck作者: tropical 时间: 2002-10-23 22:41
我是上海女人，很实际。要我就不会嫁给你。婚后你有意无意的暗示，不是你我不会有生分。上海女人受不了这气。离婚后，还要背个其貌不扬的上海女人也敢甩CICICO的帅哥的罪名。压力实在太大。
你要把自己心态放平，这情况胜算实在很大。祝你好运。作者: ^-^ 时间: 2002-10-23 22:53
玉米,
你要捡痴猪,胜利是属于泥地 :p :p :p作者: Nedved 时间: 2002-10-23 23:19
世茂滨江买好,一切都解决了作者: 随心 时间: 2002-10-24 00:06
都32岁了，还叽叽歪歪的，谁敢嫁给你？！作者: seriousplayer 时间: 2002-10-24 10:53
why want 上海女人?
I like girls from northern china.
Simple and Lovely.作者: bukit 时间: 2002-10-24 11:40
双喜：
作者提到‘三个月前我认识了她’，注意‘认识’时还没开始追求。现在就已上过床了，而且她还有男友，根本不打算跟这个傻哥。这不叫‘随便’什么叫？问问你母亲会这样吗？别管她是哪儿的，这种女人。。。不过倒是和这傻哥挺配的，反正他也不在乎。作者: CNN 时间: 2002-10-24 15:19
Corn,
You are 32 now, not 23. In six month, have sex with a girl is kind of slow, but ask her to marry you is too fast, too fast. It looks you really don't have much experience. You still have chance since her boyfriend is not here, This is my suggestion:
(1) Don't talk marriage anymore, continue to f*uck her, take care of her and after another she may ask you to marry her
(2) Date with other girls and let her know you are f*ucking other girls too.作者: bihappy 时间: 2002-10-24 21:32
bukit: On this point, I totally agree with you. Well, 3 months is not a problem if they love each other seriously...the problem is she has a boyfriend in Shanghai!
Anyways it's not good to sleep around no matter that person is male or female, right?
Your first post seemed like "non-virgin" and "women who enjoy sex" are not acceptable. Don't you thik it's unfair for women? Will you agree to prove your virginaity to your girlfriend if she can prove she is a virgin? wink :p作者: xiaoyue 时间: 2002-10-24 21:37
Shuang Xi!
Very good points! I support your view on this fully and unconditionally 作者: SpringYi 时间: 2002-10-25 00:25
这个恶心话题看了半天，就CNN这个弟兄说了几句老经验的话..
其他的真他妈的鬼扯淡！！！
什么上海女人与北方女人性格不同，什么要痴心打动她，什么如何如何，都是鬼扯淡！！！
一帮小孩子，都回家睡觉去！作者: tetanos 时间: 2002-11-25 17:57
How old are you, may I ask?作者: nortel8 时间: 2002-11-25 18:39
Xiaoyue,
Are you a divorced woman?作者: Manda 时间: 2002-11-25 18:42
我想那个女生是个比较专一的人, 国内男朋友也许是她的梦想, 没有那么容易放弃的.作者: rosewiththorns 时间: 2002-11-25 20:11
看来不仅是北京丫头娶不得。高兴啊，有垫背的了，谢谢你上海女孩。
原来那个《北京女孩不能娶》的帖字谁还有？我想温故知新。作者: 任逍遥 时间: 2002-12-17 02:35
有点饥不择食的味道，偷种了人家的地，还想占有？
