标题: 情乱如麻 [打印本页] 作者: hawker 时间: 2003-3-3 11:29 标题: 情乱如麻 来到了这里，见到自己朝思暮想的人，但一切都改变了，曾经的温柔丝守，不离不弃在现实面前变的支离破碎，不是不想去想，不是不敢去爱，而是一切的想法都在现实里变的无力，来到这里的人失去了在爱面前的坚持，省下的是最现实的想法---无论如何都要留下来，为什么要强求去得到其实不属于自己的东西呢？其实，是怕，怕困难，怕死，怕失去面子，怕回到自己的家，为了留下来，可以放弃尊严，放弃自己，放弃一切，可以轻易的忘却曾经的刻骨铭心，这才是我们，真正的我们，幸福生活中的我们是无法体会真正的自己的，来到了这里我们被彻底暴光，现实逼我们自私，只有这样才可以活下来，应该说可以不怎么困难的活下来。没有人在想到会伤害真正关心和深爱自己的人，无情的现实吞噬了一切美好的谎言，在风中所有的憧憬慢慢凋零。没人去争取，取而代之的是完全的无所谓和随欲而安，然而一切都只是逃避的理由，不是无所谓，不是随缘，是不敢去争取，不敢去想（待续）作者: whoknowsxyz 时间: 2003-3-3 14:54
The comments -- beautifully written obviously by a highly educated person -- are haplessly filled with sadness and emotional bewilderment about the cruel reality of our private life. Reality ****s! Yes, we feel being betrayed when our significant others broke up with us; yes, we feel upset when life does not go exactly the way we expected;and yes, we feel depressed when one of our "friends" failed us, or for whatever reasons otherwise (the bizarrely cold winter must be one of them!). Yet, I believe our true friends still care about us. There's no reason why we should be affraid to face the music and why we should reject friendship or love; our friends might well have thought that they must have done something wrong! Don't let them down; don't let them feel guilty which they never deserve! Each of us should avoid from following the steps of those who have betrayed or failed us. Further, don't pre-judge yourself or others. Kiss away the pain and go on!作者: ChinaStory 时间: 2003-3-3 15:04
Nice English and Chinese.作者: shenglan 时间: 2003-3-3 18:28
一个人在逃避什么，不是别人是自己
一个人最害怕什么，不是寒冷是孤寂作者: wangminjiang 时间: 2003-3-3 18:33
that is the way life goes.....作者: 风清扬 时间: 2003-3-4 15:07
Loving or being loved at a time is beauty. As always, everything changes except change though.作者: yoda 时间: 2003-3-4 15:59
To hawker, pls go through the book, "who moved my cheese", I'm pretty sure you can dig out something useful for you. Good Luck!作者: shenglan 时间: 2003-3-4 20:25
快刀斩乱麻 作者: whoknowsxyz 时间: 2003-3-8 21:15
Life is transitory, so is love! The initiator's overwhelming and truthful perplexed feelings were expressed in a way that is so powerful, beautiful and artistic that each word can be savoured for a long time. Any more articles or comments on this subject?作者: hawker 时间: 2003-11-7 02:18
本意为伤心的故事不会再有人眷顾，因为世间伤心太多，但依然看到了许多朋友的回复，谢谢大家，悲伤的恋情写出来不是想让大家给我同情而是想给自己带来希望。仿佛世间真爱不在，我只有慢慢去寻。作者: whiteblack 时间: 2003-11-7 18:18
hawker: I will always back up you. life is still full of hope, remember.作者: dammy2008 时间: 2003-11-8 21:59
No one can crumple up you except yourself.
