标题: My western boyfriend [打印本页] 作者: Yellowrose 时间: 2003-1-25 10:59 标题: My western boyfriend I have a nice French boyfriend, but I hesitate to marry him, for I am afraid that the culture difference will cause conflicts in daily life. As I know, there are a lot of marriages between Chinese and Westerns in Canada. I hope to get advices from Chinese who have such experiece. Welcome to discuss the problems we all may face when we are exposed to multicultures.作者: balconyview 时间: 2003-1-25 18:36
I believe that different culture may cause problem, but it is not the most serious problem. What you should consider is that what kind of people the two of you are. If you two meet with problems caused by different culture or anything else, what you two will do or what he will do.
There is always problems in life. All kinds. It is up to you to find ways to solve. Your personality, your experience, your maturity, your intelligence and your imagination. Don't worry, just try to find out how he deals with such problems and think about how you can deal with them.作者: gusongjun 时间: 2003-1-25 18:56
He is rich and can surpport your family-> marry.
Otherwise, give up.
Your happiness depends on the pocket.作者: Yellowrose 时间: 2003-1-25 22:41
Balconyview,
Your remarks are quite thoughtful. Thank you very much.作者: Yellowrose 时间: 2003-1-25 22:49
Gusongjun,
Rich men are a small group. Most of us are common people. I do not think that happiness depends on one's pocket.作者: Emerald 时间: 2003-1-25 23:43
Does he care about you enough?Do you trust him?Do you love him without any hesitation?There must be some culture difference more or less between you two. Before you're sure enough about the relation, just give yourself more time.作者: 冬青 时间: 2003-1-26 00:44
西方男人不管穷不穷，对钱都很小心。他不会让女人因为他收入高而和他好，所以通常不让你知道他的工资收入，他希望你是因为喜欢他才和他在一起。这一点和中国男人有很大不同。中国男人喜欢在女人面前露富，其实这对中国男人不利，有钱时感觉很好，感觉所有女人都爱他；没钱时就抬不起头，觉得女人都唾弃他。