标题: 享受孤独 [打印本页] 作者: I AM YOUR FATHE 时间: 2002-5-15 14:16 标题: 享受孤独 当‘蒙娜利沙的微笑’的旋律在耳边再次萦绕，当我独自一人徘徊在空寂的房间里点燃手中香烟的时候，我突然感受到了寂寞的美丽，真的！那一刻是那么的奇妙，远离喧嚣和躁动的我在孤独的苦涩中体会到了那种隐隐作痛的幸福。你能相信这种感觉吗？过去习惯于在朋友的簇拥中扬扬挥洒的我也曾对此嗤之以鼻，但我真的在MONTREAL漫长的冬季里享受到了孤独。我要对远在大洋彼岸的爱人高呼，我的亲爱不要为我担心，我是幸福的。作者: wang8 时间: 2002-5-15 14:47
because you are my father???作者: lh 时间: 2002-5-15 18:37
王八；
很有意思。你的壳很厚，也有感觉吗？ 你不知，我身边一位朋友，每每说话，“王八”二字不离口。你们可能是兄弟。作者: rosewiththorns 时间: 2002-5-15 22:13
孤独和寂寞是不同的。你有爱你的人，所以那不是孤独，那是寂寞。你享受的是寂寞，而非孤独。有人愿意享受孤独吗？孤独只有去品位的，没有去享受的。作者: Cocoz 时间: 2002-5-16 01:05
我有一个女朋友也在多伦多， 有一份不错的工作， 就是个人问题没解决， 所以经常参加各类交友活动，也经常向我通报她的最新进展， 给人的感觉是生活满丰富多彩的，没想到她也有孤独。有一天深夜，她独自饮酒，喝得差不多时，便放声大哭。哭泣中她打电话给我，先是醉头醉脑声明没别的意思，只是觉得十分孤独。 又呕气的说：有了车 子，就象有了男朋友，可以带我随处转，有个房子就象有了家。”我一点不惊讶，我很清楚所有的快乐背后都隐藏着成倍的孤独和痛苦！其实谁又不是呢？ 和家人打电话的时候永远说：我在这里挺好的，从来不生病。方下电话就只有抱着枕头哭的份儿。性格决定命运,为了身份离乡背井,为了出国不顾一切的来了， 是我先抛弃了亲情和友情， 就活该生活在冰天雪地中，与寂寞不同，寂寞可以叫很多人来闹，一闹寂寞就会跑。而孤独是闹不走的，因为孤独就住在心灵深处, 是用精神支付的高消费。作者: UFO001 时间: 2002-5-16 01:40
Find your God
and
you'll never feel lonely
Trust ME作者: Matrix 时间: 2002-5-16 02:08
Yeap, alone and lonely are totally different, most of the time I am not alone but I still feel lonely, 'cuz even if your closest relatives and friends they sometimes just don't understand you and don't know what u really want and want to do... :cool:作者: tdk 时间: 2002-5-16 12:24
loneliness is touched by feeling, but solitude is touched by heart. in the state of fickleness, you will feel loneliness. but only when you are in the state of peace, do you taste the solitude. solitue is a state of your heart, loneliness is only a superfacial feeling, which can be easily smoothed by a hilarious party or some sweet words.
loneliness is nothing but a repugnant devil, no one like. but the solitude is not.作者: Cinderella623 时间: 2002-5-16 20:54
cocoz:我有你朋友同样的感受，但她比我强，可以痛哭，可我不行，只有流泪，因为没有痛哭的地方（没有隔音的房子），如果可能与她联系，也许我们会成为朋友，可以通通电话，心情不好的时候可以一起放声痛哭排泄一下。记得有一天我心情不好，给所有的单身朋友打了电话，但没有一个人可倾诉（不管是男是女），估计有的人还以为我有毛病那，多无奈阿.....作者: Charlotte 时间: 2002-5-16 23:00
如果想放声大哭，即使没有隔音的房子也不怕，把洗澡间的莲蓬头打开，有流水的声音，就不怕别人听到了。难过的时候，放声大哭，把所有的不愉快都发泄出来，就没事了。希望所有的朋友都快乐！ 作者: mingliao 时间: 2002-5-17 01:52
S.R:
无神论者大多会如此。
本人也是无神论者,但是,我的生活很充实.从不孤独寂寞.
且更没象在这网站上那位有"神"经病的某某(篇NO"303)常常在此发"神经"呢. 作者: Cocoz 时间: 2002-5-17 11:46
Cinderella623, check you mail, thanks!作者: tdk 时间: 2002-5-17 12:17
林志炫 - 蒙娜利莎的眼泪 http://202.103.188.104:85/random/male/t/terry/onlylovesong/07.rm作者: Cinderella623 时间: 2002-5-22 00:25
cocoz：什么啊？哪个是你？作者: Cocoz 时间: 2002-5-22 00:45
so you got tons of e-mail? wink good for you. can i to see you?作者: Cocoz 时间: 2002-5-22 00:46
so you got tons of e-mail? wink good for you. when i go to Toronto,can i see you?作者: rosewiththorns 时间: 2002-5-22 22:33
cocoz:不满你说，你的这段话我在一本书上看过了，没错吧？作者: Cocoz 时间: 2002-5-23 13:29
so, can you give us the book's name and let's see it. prove it! not only you and me have the feeling of being lonely, so you can't say if there is something I made it of my imagination or if it's fictitious, i NEEDN'T prove something to u,if you want, i give you my friend's tele in Toronto,you will know if i am a lier.作者: Cocoz 时间: 2002-5-23 13:46
cocoz3ca@yahoo.ca作者: Wells . 大西瓜 时间: 2002-5-23 14:02
我很享受孤独的，但有时又喜欢挑起别人的热情大玩一顿。孤独有它独有的美，只有会品尝的人才能知道。喜欢孤独的人内心也是火热的，经过孤独的酝酿之后，会烧得更烈。象又一次的复生。 :cool:作者: rosewiththorns 时间: 2002-5-23 19:12
孤独是用精神支付的高消费。孤独的女人通常是成熟的女人。他们一般有自己的事业，有宽松的经济，有丰富而难以往怀的情感经历，但最主要得有思想和悟性。
孤独的滋味很苦，的确象不放糖的咖啡，但孤独去很有味。孤独与寂寞不同，寂寞可以叫很多人来闹，一闹寂寞就会跑。而孤独是闹不走的，因为孤独就住在心灵深处。
孤独者有时与谁都不愿联系，除非那是一个可以交心的人。孤独只属于自己，当你细细的品味它时，会觉得有一种飘然而有惆怅的美。
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许多事业并不成功的女人也孤独，因为这类女人非常聪明而且心高。现实生活中有很多素质很好的女性，他们的孤独同样刻骨铭心。
----姜汤作者: Cocoz 时间: 2002-5-23 23:32
congradulation! you find it! so you think i am copy? now i figue out what's in your mind, first, you admire for what i wrote, some words remind you, or some ideal similar to you, then you wonder how can i write such kind of thing? so you believe i must have copyed from some book, yes, you read more, you think more, some word you just speak them out even without even think. because it impressed you. tell you one thing , i can write soem really beautiful words and articles,at least not worse than yours. but i needn't prove it here!作者: Cinderella623 时间: 2002-5-23 23:41
其实同于不同不要紧，要紧的是我们都赞同他的话。cocoz和rose是吧？作者: Cocoz 时间: 2002-5-24 00:02
one example: chinese idiom: ren2yun2ji4yun2, means other people speak that way, and you agree and speak like that way, but when you didn't meet it before, you will never know you can express so simply and accurately.so you study.
the english word: ****, when you hear english people speak, you speak, you wouldn't ask where it comes from,i tell you its an abbr of For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge and the word GOLF is Gentleman Only Lady Forbidden. it is study, not copy. and one more, if i write i will make it for money, because i and i spent my time to read, to study, of course i and the time i spend the experience i have worth that. i wouldn't drop here for free, and amusing people. some kind of things to you maybe that's weird,but that's a part of my life, so you cna't say it's fictitious.here is a place like big garbage can, every one throw what they like. and i can understand some people like things for FREE.
