标题: 请问碰到这样的事情，what I should do? [打印本页] 作者: dingdd 时间: 2009-1-29 15:51 标题: 请问碰到这样的事情，what I should do? My son was in the kindergarten of an elementary school. Yesterday afternoon, when we pick up my son at the daycare, we were told he wet his pants (pp in his pants). The reason is as follows: : l/ c3 l0 ?$ Z* f" q 0 N4 s/ Y- P& F4 xThe teacher of the daycare took them to the outside playground of the school. Before they went out, a teacher asked my son twice is he wanted to go to the washroom and my son said no. However, during they were outside, my son wanted to go to pp. He told the teacher twice and the teacher refused. They stayed outside for an hour. My son felt very uncomfortable. 5 minutes before they went back to inside room, my son finally wet his pants. This morning, I asked why the teacher refused to let kid go to washroom and the teacher said:" we've asked him twice before we went out. He said no. We refused him because we want him to respect our rule, which is they should go to washroom before we go out."0 P% z. s$ h$ {; q) p4 u' z* p& k
) U/ e: B0 o5 k0 G$ vI just can not understand this. For sure, kids should respect the rules, but this rule is at the expense of kids' physical and psychological health (because when a boy wet his pants before his school mates, he will be laughed).! c& Q& K3 X" R( i, V
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Could you please give me some suggestion what I should do? 5 o' Q7 a/ E" \0 X8 w5 X $ H/ P/ b8 ?1 h9 \
For sure, first thing I need talk with my son is he need go to the washroom before go out to play.作者: brightsz 时间: 2009-1-29 16:25 标题: 老师很差劲 如果是我也会很生气。可以投诉他们吗。:mad:作者: helpwanted 时间: 2009-1-29 16:44
It could the case that when your son was asked, he really didn't need to pee, and after a hour's playing, he had the need to pee...can we pee right away just anytime when we are asked? ridiculous!作者: danslalune 时间: 2009-1-29 18:38
你应该跟幼儿园的园长反映，这样的规定应该灵活执行。比方说如果老师带孩子出去散步，没有可能满世界找厕所，那么就应要求所有的孩子出门之前必须pipi，中间有湿了裤子的也有情可原；可要是就在园内的室外玩，有条件去厕所，就不能让孩子憋着，大冷天的湿了裤子冻着孩子，这可就是幼儿园的责任了。作者: 嘿嘿嘿 时间: 2009-1-29 20:46
晕倒，我以为这里的幼儿园比国内好，老师素质会高一点呢。记得小时候表妹也有过，好可怜，才4岁小孩湿着裤子还被老师训斥不让换裤子，直到我们去接，还记得那个老师一脸凶残的表情。幼儿园的小孩懂什么rules呢？这种老师应该被送去军队才是作者: flagger 时间: 2009-1-29 21:25
过了个年, 到处都是揭露问题的, 看来蒙城又要减少常驻人口了.作者: OLIVERCA 时间: 2009-1-30 20:40
无话可说！我会非常明确地告诉老师：我对此很不高兴！然后做我自己可以做的。0 z4 G1 c: O E7 P: k0 z
2 `# |# x* N: I( @4 t; G顺便问一下孩子多大？作者: febby 时间: 2009-1-30 21:07
Tell the teacher, to be a teacher, she shoule take care of kids. What does take care mean, it means keep kids happy and healthly. it is the basic rule! ' s9 D5 ~/ v4 a& O* {/ X" u) N 6 Z9 s- a) ]' N Y
She refused the kid to go to washroom eventhought she had aked him twice before, it doesn't make any sence, who knows when people wants to go to washroom? even adult can't tell, how about a kid?! ( w5 w5 O; i" ]: u, v0 p * \( z& g( O0 i/ p* H1 f
Make the rule for what time to go to washroom, tell the teacher, she can only go to washroom twice a day, in order to be able take care of all kids, does it make any sence, of course not! Do not take the RULE as an excuse, it doesn't work out taht way!作者: dingdd 时间: 2009-2-3 12:26 标题: Thanks for everyone here We've talked with the school and they promise this will not happen. They still said:"this time, the teacher has fault, maybe more, but the kid also has some fault..." 9 N3 V% _- H: e: G E; p+ \# O 5 t0 x% m% K# i; z6 T! k3 P5 ]5 q2 m
The teachers in the school is good though the daycare teachers are just soso! 1 V; l$ i, E$ x7 ], x0 Z % G- e5 `8 Q/ CThanks for everyone here!作者: dingdd 时间: 2009-2-3 12:27
By the way, to answer LZ's question, my son is 5.作者: flagger 时间: 2009-2-3 12:32
问题解决了就好, 下一步准备为孩子找学校吧.