Lalune06

听起来好像有点支持女主人公的意思。 :confused:

Post by 圆明园
跟什么年代比?
"道德水准"是谁定义的?
按理说这是个人判断, 别人不应该说三道四.
可是这句话在这里当成事实来说, 并且作为追求利益的前提, 我不太同意.
可以把婚姻说的比鲜花还美丽, 但归根结底是个人追求个人幸福的现象, 对我来说, 个人幸福就是个人利益. 这是人的本性, 跟道德没关系.

Lalune06

看了这段话，想起某部电影的一个情节：

一个妓女前向岔开腿坐在那里，嘴里边吃香蕉，边喝水，下面有一个班的日本兵提着裤子轮着过。。。

---- 服阿，遇到任何事情都能真冷静。 :confused:

Post by 圆明园
我不支持谁.
我也不同情谁, 因为婚姻是他,她的约定. 他和她都是成年人, 有判断能力.
我不是道德的代言人, 我也不从道德角度看事情.
婚姻, 假如揭开浪漫的面纱, 跟一般的契约没大差别, 风险和回报是个人判断.

Lalune06

一句话，天理何在！

Post by 圆明园
我希望能用大脑思考, 而不是让想象驱使.
P.S.:你有非常奇怪的想象力.

Lalune06

哀主的亲属，可能可以向移民局起诉骗婚，那么女主人公完全可能被遣送回国。虽然男方已经不在人间，起诉有一定的难度，但是只要准备足够的证明，还是可能成功的。

Post by liangzhou_C
事情的结局已经无法改变, 最美好的当然是这位"女士"能够总揽全局,让自己能够在未来的日子里没有心灵的不安, 也让"丈夫"能够冥目.
也希望同胞们吸取教训, 多一个心眼, 事先做好法律的考量和准备.异国它乡生活本就是一个考验,太需要家庭的和谐,和睦,同舟共济了!

Lalune06

骗婚的条例：

http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/facts/marriage.html


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Marriages of convenience

Issue

Abuse of the immigration system through marriages of convenience.

Fact

When someone gets married for the sole reason of immigrating to Canada, this is known as a marriage of convenience.

Under Canada’s immigration law, marriages of convenience are not allowed. Citizenship and Immigration Canada’s officers are specially trained to recognize genuine immigration applications, and they know how to detect marriages of convenience. They use a variety of techniques to uncover marriage fraud, including document checks, site visits and interviews with sponsors and applicants.

Canada’s immigration system is also set up in a way that discourages marriages of convenience. Anyone who wants to sponsor their spouse or partner to immigrate to Canada makes a serious legal commitment. As part of this commitment, sponsors must support their spouse or partner for three years, even if the relationship fails. If the couple breaks up and the sponsored person gets social assistance, the sponsor must pay back the amount of social assistance the former spouse received. Given the legal obligations, sponsorship should not be taken lightly, and everyone is responsible for ensuring that their marriage is genuine.

Citizenship and Immigration Canada recognizes that even genuine marriages can fail. However, if a person enters into a marriage of convenience and comes to Canada as an immigrant, enforcement action can be taken. This enforcement action could result in deportation, and is the responsibility of the Canada Border Services Agency.