danyan

to chips:

it seems that you are trying to reach a conclusion. It is really not that easy......  There is really no point to discuss like this.  The only thing i could see from your discussion is you do not understand girls.  btw, i am not telling that i know guys very well, otherwise i would have already realized my biggest wish.

Do you really think most girls can be so easily touched by any guy's nice presenting, even "in the 1st round"?  NOOOO.  We always try to get to know guys from details.  What you said is also right, the nice persons are always not good at showing, but, don't you think that you do need to do something to let the girl you love know about you?  The reason i am still waiting is i can tell who are pretending in front me.  But,... how can i tell which guy is really nice without seeing he did something really nicely??

I believe you are a nice guy, but instead of talking about on which side the problem is, pls try to understand some more about girls.  Trying to find someone reliable is the wish of all the girls.  You do need to do something to convince the girl you are the one.

chips

daphney :"I believe you are a nice guy"
Don't belive I am a nice guy the 1st time you read my posting

anyway, I already posted too much here tonight. Take a rest..Post tomorrow....

angel_f

one day,在百般无聊中看到"找女友"的帖子，于是无聊人在无聊中回了一些无聊的话。想不到竟然引起了如此"热闹"的场面....本来我就是个嘴笨的人，何况现在遇上了montrealguy and chips二位论坛高手,i think i have to shut off my mouth  wink  .About my friend, maybe she is not luck曾经有两次我作为她的“眼镜"跟她去相亲,but所见的人素质太低,first time they ask her“能否香一口”?“是否可以同居”?....如此的话，令人恶心，难怪我们会有如此感叹and ask ''where is the handsome man in montreal?''。当然这“帅”也不单指外表，最重要的还是人品的“帅"!now i believe nice girl and guy is anywhere,just you have chance to meet or not!!And不管你是新移民，老移民，大家都是出门在外不容易，何不少些扔砖头，多些帮助?in my case,i also have some troblem more than you all, but now i am trying to"凡事看开一点，别太多抱怨".i think everything will be ok!Anyway,the weekend is coming, i am going to go Jet culb with angel1234and our friend(oh, forget to say angel1234 is my roommate and good friend.还有我们口中所指的那个朋友属同一人)so guys别在这里发牢骚了，let's go to dance, make some friends there!说不定，你会遇上心中的他or她。祝愿找男友和找女友的朋友都能找到理想的意中人.oh,chips , i hope you can find a good job soon too!       THANKS

chips

daphney :"I believe you are a nice guy"
Thanks , Thanks

MontrealGuy:"You spent too much at website"
Thanks for noticed my problem and gave me advice.

angel_f :"oh,chips , i hope you can find a good job soon too!"
Thanks Thanks

chips

angelxxx, daphney , neko ..ladies in here....Could you confirm or give comments about the following claims and supports which my lady friends have told me? Are those words true?

1) Ladies told me that they prefer guys' personalities over thier appearances
Thier support: "One of our girl friends looks nice. Her boy friend doesn't look good. We all told this girl that she can find a more handsome  boy friend;  She doesn't has to be with that guy. However, this girl doesn't care about her boy friend's appearance. She doesn't look for a handsome. She still loves him. "

2) Some married ladies told me that they considered personalities over richness when they chose thier husbands
Thier support: "We had  met and spent time with many other rich guys before we confirmed with our husbands which were not as rich as the previous guys. "

3) A lady complained about her job interviewer had sexual discrimination.
Her support: "The interviewer told her that the position was suitable for both male and female; however, thier company's female employee quota was finished.  So, the  openning position only offered for male."