helloman

I tend to agree with 双喜.

The cases that jjh listed
sound like mutual exploitation.

It is nothing unusual
for men to want 年轻美丽 girls.

The question is why in the world
年轻美丽 girls would go for the men
who are 不是老就是丑 and 行为也很不检点.

Love is one possibility,
but a very, VERY slim one in those cases.

The 年轻美丽 girls probably want material gain, social status, etc. The list can go on.

If both sides can provide what the other side wants,
then it is like a business transaction.
As long as both sides get into that transaction
with eyes wide opened,
fully aware of what they get into,
then there is no problem.
It is a free world after all.

These cases occur often in China, Hong Kong,Taiwan,in fact everywhere.

Confusions only arise
when you compare those "business" relationships
with love-based relationships.

萍

大家小心, Luckwoman 终于说实话了,而且还把她的白人老板供了出来,也不叫人SHUT UP,或谈什么LOVE, RESPECT了, 因为她是DATING AGENCY(注意,还是INTERNATIONAL).既然是AGENCY,
那就是BUSINESS, 既然是BUSINESS, 那就要赚钱, 既然老板是白人, 说穿了她就是帮白人赚中国人的钱!

而所谓的国际婚介现在满天飞, 在互联网上一搜索一大堆, 因为这是个一本万利的BUSINESS, 又没有什么风险, 也不用负什么责任. 不象以前的红娘或媒婆, 为了穿针引线, 得两家不停地跑路,游说, 搞不好银子拿不到, 还会被人暴K一顿, 万一有几次不成功,名声就臭了, 被人指指点点, 自此断了活路.

说白了, 婚介跟爱情没有什么关系. 成功了是你幸运, 不成功, 你就再接再厉, 直到幸运降临. 婚介只管收银子,其他的都是你自己的造化

其实一开始没想说这么多的, 只是看不惯LUCKWOMAN在那儿唱高调,
动不动往自己脸上贴金.

还想提醒大家的是不要随便寄个人CV给那些婚介, 特别是寒碜到用雅虎免费邮箱的那种"国际婚介". 有些婚介会卖CV给别的婚介. 我有个朋友数年前在网上注册了一家, 现在都结婚两年了, 还会收到各种婚介的垃圾邮件!

Antec

luckwoman，我说的吧，您走错地方了，我们无聊人士也没什么钱，饥渴的饥渴，妒忌的妒忌，发颠的发颠，害得您被诸位总结得想大批斗一样，我一向同情弱者，您多保重。

其实说句公道话，business也没错，什么人走什么路，天天上班干活那里有时间社交啊。关键是这一行比较良莠不齐，信不luckwoman收到的邮件肯定不少。  :cool: