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Lh

I think Junex is quite right.  You are the boss who controls the relationship between you and your husband.  As I know, most of the Chinese men in overseas are very loyal to their family. On the contrary, the percentage of Chinese ladies(in overseas) who dishonored their husbands are much more than that of Chinese men’s.   
I think the best way is that you need to study how to kindly treat your husband.  I do not think that your husband deceived you.   If the situation is just like that you described below, the conclusion is that the problem is from that lady not your husband.  Frankly speaking, I think you are too sensitive and the way you treated your husband is that most Chinese husband do not like.  I can understand your husband’s o ver-reaction, because he should be a person who do not like to be slandered.  The burden to Chinese men in overseas is very heavy.   Please treat them kindly.  

I hope you can still keep good relationship between you and your husband.  Next time, when something unhappy happen, just put yourself in the position of your husband’s and keep quiet and talk with him gently and frankly.  DO NOT TRY TO HURT HIM INTENTIONALLY.
Good luck!

odds

Obviously the husband hurted his wife first. Women have the sixth sense, and it is always right. The wife got hurted subconsiously and she showed her angry. The husband knew that his wife got the point so he went out of control and burst out. Then what the wife should do?

a) discuss it directly and openly with her husband
b) ignore it as nothing had happened but hurt herself day by day, and eventually hurt her husband intentionally
c) indirectly mention it, but let her husband know that she forgive him

React emotionally is a good way to communicate, but make sure it will help you to achive your goal but not the opposite.

First of all, make very sure what do you want, what is your goal. And then never forget it.

lh

Hi, my friends:
  May be you guys think I am the wife in the story. Any where thank you very much.
  I love my husband very much, even I do something he likes but I do not like.

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