francaismtl

辛苦么?介绍下经验吧.

zx

我！
不过我们的宝宝还没有出生。父母应该是不会过来了，我心里也七上八下的。
我现在正在做各方面的准备，包括物质的和心理的。
我们可以交流一下经验啊。我们的宝宝6月底7月初生，你呢？

seraph88

Post by francaismtl
辛苦么?介绍下经验吧.

很多的。
我还见过只有老婆一个人在这儿生孩子的。有的是老公在这儿待到孩子满月走的，有的连满月都没待到就走了。

francaismtl

我们家娃还没发芽呢
心里没底，先问问
听说非常辛苦
可是为什么老外带孩子那么轻松？

Post by zx
我！
不过我们的宝宝还没有出生。父母应该是不会过来了，我心里也七上八下的。
我现在正在做各方面的准备，包括物质的和心理的。
我们可以交流一下经验啊。我们的宝宝6月底7月初生，你呢？

francaismtl

那太残忍了

Post by seraph88
很多的。
我还见过只有老婆一个人在这儿生孩子的。有的是老公在这儿待到孩子满月走的，有的连满月都没待到就走了。

C&C

我们就是。别怕，肯定能挺过来。别的没啥，只要能不睡觉就行了。还好，我的觉比较少，一天有四个小时就够了。当时我晚上是不睡的，白天睡三四个小时。还可以。

小笼馒头

我来报道。

已经3个多月了，没有想象中那么辛苦。每天回家看见女儿，什么苦都忘了，呵呵。

TWIN 妈

没什么可怕的。我带一对双胞胎，没有想象得那么难。母亲的天性，谁都行。

Di Di

Me.
My son will 100 days old soon.
没有趟不过去的河.

mas

Many Canadian couples take care of their babies by themselves.  They never rely on their parents.  I am raising my BB by myself.  Yes, it's tough, but it's very rewarding.  I wouldn't want my parents to take care of my BB any way for the following reasons:
1)  Most of the grandparents only have the experience how they raise you in China.  Those old experience might not applicable to the modern Canadian culture, some of those ancient method might even be harmful to BB.
2)  Grandparents tends to spoil their grandchildren.  It's more difficult to discipline your BB later in life.
3)  By raising up your BB, you are bonding with your child.  That's the most precious thing in the world.  Imagine you give your BB to your parents, and by the time you see your BB, he wouldn't want to be hold by you, how sad it would be?

So just be ready for the coming hard work.  As long you are ready for the minimum sleeping for a few month, you should be fine.  I did that myself, and I don't regret a bit.  I enjoy every moment with my BB.  I guess what's what they called 母爱