I have a question and I am welcome everyone’s opinion. My husband is working on a new job in China and has more chances to social with different people including women. Social maybe help his to build good working relation ship.
I am kind of sensitive when he is too close to a woman as he had an affair many years ago at work place. The affair ended after I was aware of the affair. He recently talked with me pointing out that we each should have our own little space. I don’t know what that mean and asked for more examinations, such as for example. He said that for example if he goes lunch or dinner with a woman I should not get upset or care too much. They are too many chances in China and almost unavoidable. I said that if its work related I wouldn’t care. If its non work related he should and not hard to void to be with a women along. If for networking purpose he can ask the 3rd person to go with them. He thinks I am too sensitive. I agreed I am sensitive but if there was no affair history I would not restrict him entertaining with a woman along. That makes him even hate my restriction as he hated to mention the history. I knew he wanted to totally forget the history but IT’S the reason for me to be sensitive. Do you thank I am too excessive? What you think I should face the issue? I appreciate everyone’s opinion and suggestions.