Franckey

It's been ten years. I thought I had managed to overcome it.

sometimes, all the details of her pump out no matter where when or what I am doing. but I slowly get used to it, my pain slowly fading out.

what if I asked her stay that night? what if she did not take that short cut for home? what if I simply did not love her? what if...

yes, she's no longer in this world. like all of us will eventually end up. but why her? why in that age? why I love her?

cannot stay in that city, everywhere has the sign of her.

ten years, it's been ten years. I got my wife, I have a new future in this new city. I got so many new friends... I never thought she will come out of my mind and bring me back to 10 years ago...

I've been feeling nothing when I think of her in the daytime, when I am sober...

Losting her still haunts me while I am sleep.

how long will it last? how long

niuyuming

Hi Chairman Modern, I am fine. How are you?
It seems everyone of our group is occupied, so I haven't seen you guys for a long time. Are you going to “送温暖”again in the coming winter? I'd be delighted to go with you this time.  :p

hjl2001

yuming,long time no see,how are you.you dig the two years old post out,a good memory.
wang8 looks always has a positive mood,but long time no see his shadow here,this guy maybe have too many child turtles now for busy feed.
good luck for two of you.

niuyuming

To Franckey:
你写帖子后又过去两年了，不知痛苦是否减少？
我有过不同但略为类似的遭遇：一位很投缘的异性朋友的过早离世让我消沉了大半年。更何况你曾爱过她。这其中的哀伤是无法用语言形容的！
似乎不该接这伤疤，但有时其他人以某种方式表达一下相近的感受也能令你稍得排遣。
人生苦短，多珍重现在拥有的吧！

msn

Hi, Franckey ;

    Maybe I have no life experience to understand your real mood.But I believe:enjoy life in today and tomorrow,you will get the real happiness. Although I don not agree wang8's "find a girl is easier than buying a car. ",I agree wang8's frank speaking"life is short, have fun! ".Believe yourself and believe the friends around you!

   Good luck !
  

magahe

Wang8 is an interesting guy....

XO-Bar

Wang 8 don't know what franckey is talking about, may be still too young.

kukoo

Seems Wang8 acts like God.

helenzhang

其实wang8是个好人，性情中人！

wang8

oh, find another woman. do yourself a favour, my friend. be more sucessful and attractive.
find a girl is easier than buying a car. let me show you how difficult to afford a car. firtsly, you should have a driver license and budget. then you should decide rent, lease? second hand car or new car? sedan, coupe or truck? janpanese, american or european? to get a women? all you need is money. many may argue with me here, but if you have money, you will know what i mean. everything has a price tag, just shop according to your budget.
you shouldn't miss the whole sky for a comet.
life is short, have fun! my man.
the merciful wang8