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好不容易找到一份比较满意的工作，但在同事中有个黑人。那个人很变态，刚开始想追我，但我已经结婚，所以拒绝了他，而且在工作中尽量不跟他说话，以免他会误解。但是前几个星期
他竟然说把我的名字忘记了，叫我蠢猪，我已经警告他要告诉经理。但是在前两天他竟然又叫我蠢猪，还恶人先告状跟经理说我叫他蠢猪。说真的我的语言没他会辩解，经理竟然认为我无理取闹。但是我也说了有下回我会报警，但就是他再说，我怎样才能留证据。真的当时想一刀杀了那个人。请大家同胞帮帮我

J05

Post by laowang66;2367500
这么简单的事直接交给老公处理，如果老公窝囊到连这点问题都处理不了，就离婚嫁给老黑算了。

‘交给老公处理’--〉老公该怎么处理？

laowang66

这么简单的事直接交给老公处理，如果老公窝囊到连这点问题都处理不了，就离婚嫁给老黑算了。

guan-1566

我也在大公司工作过，以我之见，可能是我们太胆小了，怕丢工作，怕这怕那，对一些无赖的挑衅不敢反抗。从某种情况上，这可能反而招来更多麻烦，没完没了。对待这黑无赖要狠，他骂您，你也可以反骂他，如果您害怕他的话，那你就收集他骚扰你的证据，录音就是最好的办法，把录音笔放在口袋，每次当他靠近您的时候，你就把它打开。有了证据后，再找公司人力资源部投诉，如不被受理的话，再报警。就这样下去，您在公司也是干不下去，搏一搏吧！

噎死你

Post by zouki;2362968
很直率, 想DATE就来吧. 可以下套,不要占便宜就好了,我也没什么便宜给你占.:cool:

一天到晚怕被人占便宜,怕被套牢,你要当心嫁不出去

J05

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zhumeimei

Post by 茉香绿茶;2361492
每天8小时相处，同事关系不好特烦心，

告诉他，感谢他对你的爱，跟着提出要房子，车子（越贵越好），他肯定会知难而退。
没多少个男人喜欢贪财的女人，想占便宜的占大多数。（中国的优秀男人别拍我哦。。。）

如果他有老婆，要求他离婚了再来找你，
这里的黑人没多少个敢向老婆提离婚的。
（一大串的孩子加上老婆的赡养费，没剩多少了）



同事间相处的最高境界是永远把别人当作好人，
但却永远记得每个人不可能都是好人。

同学中有一些黑人,感觉有好有坏,经验就是对好人更好,对坏人绝对别客气,你的软弱只能让他们觉得你好欺负.\
感觉有道理说道理,您的这些婉转只会让他们瞧不起中国人,他们可不懂您的婉转,只会觉得中国人就是只看钱,挑唆别人离婚,如果有第三人在场,更是中国人不道德的证据,到时候您怎么辩解?
难道说: 我说的只是让他只难而退,不是真的.
您确实是好心,只是好心未必办好事

Innecent

Sorry , I do not have chinese input:

1) This kind of person, you should keep him as DANGEROUS person
2) NO VERBAL communication unless it is necessay for work and it is better when the third party beside you as witness
3) ALL written communication ( e.g email , etc)  CC to manage in case he make up story to against you
4)  ESCAPE from him when there is only YOU and HIM
5) Do not response to him --IGNORE
6) If he still do it in front of you. Tell him STOP or You will OPEN TO PUBLIC and let everyone know what he DID to you
7) DO not afraid , BE STRONG
8) You have to WIN the bettle

Let me know what's going on next. GOOD LUCK

zouki

Post by 茉香绿茶;2362944
建议要给我回帖的朋友们先将这楼从头到尾看一次，再发表高见好不好？求你们了！
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来，先看楼主的贴：

好不容易找到一份比较满意的工作，但在同事中有个黑人。那个人很变态，刚开始想追我，但我已经结婚，所以拒绝了他，而且在工作中尽量不跟他说话，以免他会误解。但是前几个星期
他竟然说把我的名字忘记了，叫我蠢猪，我已经警告他要告诉经理。但是在前两天他竟然又叫我蠢猪，还恶人先告状跟经理说我叫他蠢猪。说真的我的语言没他会辩解，经理竟然认为我无理取闹。但是我也说了有下回我会报警，但就是他再说，我怎样才能留证据。真的当时想一刀杀了那个人。请大家同胞帮帮我

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红色字体的部分：表示LZ找到一份满意的工作不容易，她还是很珍惜这份工作。（我的理解没错吧）

蓝色字体的部分：楼主的语言不怎么样，简单的事情也被误会了，找HR或打911，不需要语言吗？或许大家有时间帮忙，但要多长时间才解决？

绿色字体的部分：LZ已经表现出很烦躁，只想尽快解决。
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to joeyzy：
zouki回我的帖说：6)如果你也喜欢他,就做个朋友,再看看.

茉香绿茶回zouki的帖：一点建议，请将这座楼从头到尾看一次，好吗？

你回我的帖：我觉得你的建议完全是在帮倒忙。
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在这里，zouki误会我是LZ，所以我建议他从头到尾看一次，不明白你为什么觉得我要zouki详细看帖是在帮倒忙，看完你的帖觉得特搞笑:cool:

如有冒犯，敬请各位海涵，
从此不再登此楼，皆因“沉默是金”。:wink:

何必呢,来了就讲几句,各抒己见.
你不讲,我还以为你 SINO的长期楼主呢.