云雨

I am 33 and have a son who is nearly 2 years old.  His father was dead in an accident a year ago.  I'd like my son to grow up in an ordinary family, I hope he can have a good father to teach him a lot of things and play with him.  I hope you have a child,too.  If you can support the whole family, I'd like to stay at home to take care of the children.  I like the children, I think I am a good mother.  I am not so beautiful, and I am a kind woman.
If you are a kind man and you like the children too, please e-mail me.

Sprewell

即使那个莽夫有这个意思，也被阁下的大号名字吓跑了。您的名字大概是出自除却巫山不是云。但每个人看了，立刻会联想，你的前夫大概是精尽而亡吧？
不如换个“官人我要”吧？

lovey

没有必要那么说得这么尖刻吧？

有理想的猪

9494 做人留一线 日后好相见哦~~

千鹤

“云雨”，说得挺中肯的呀？！

云雨

In fact, I have no confidence in looking for a good father for my child. The hope will be like the cloud and the rain, it will disappear immediately.  

I am so happy to live with my child.  Because l love him, I want my child to enjoy the much healthier life.  I hope that he can understand what is really Father's love when he grows up, and he can become a kindhearted man, a good father in the future.

I think most Chinese are very traditional, it includes me.  My friends gave me more encouragement to post the topic, but I told them that it will be finished without result. I have already prepared to live with my child alone, I think I have this ability.

oneandone

我的帖子经常被斑竹删掉。看他也挺辛苦的，不和她计较了。
看到云雨的帖子，心里很难受，真的。
有次在地铁看见一个中国母亲一个人带着孩子，一看就是新来的，因为在她的眼里我看见了一丝无助，还有些惶恐，孩子在那里蹦蹦跳跳。当时心里真的很不舒服，很难过。那些年轻的母亲，祝福你们。勇敢点，我们都需要坚强。

whoknowsxyz

Dear Yunyu, I might be wrong but I would think that you should have worded your ad to the effect that you're a loving single mother looking for a loving and warm hearted partner/husband for yourself, instead of looking for a father (or step-father, to be exact) for your son. Everyone deserves love, you're no exception. The question is how you search for your love intelligently.

冬青

I agree with whoknowsxyz. Yunyu, you are still young. You should find somebody for yourself, not only for the sake of your son.

云雨

Thanks "冬青" and "whoknowsxyz", my friends said the same thing as you said.  

I am not so sure if everything goes well in every way ---- "I love him, he loves me, my child likes him to be a father, he treats my son as his own", I think I am so greedy for that.

Of course everybody likes all the best things, but the opportunities are very rare.