montrealpost

If young,don't keep the baby, u've time for  another.  (immature to handle the situation)
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If u're old enough, then u can consider "孩子是自己的好".

montrealpost

LZ can still make her choice in telling whoever come into her life later, not necessarily 騙己騙人.
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Although I don't have the experience, I don't think it's easy to be a mother.

, g' s* k; \$ dHave u ever thought of LZ could be in her early 20's?  May be even younger.  Am I right or not?

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Personally, I disagree with anything to do with somebody's else husband (I'm extremely sorry, LZ)
totally agree with "孩子是自己的好"

. \' b; A, X/ i7 q& p3 a/ Q2 |If I have decided to have a baby at 35, I would have told u WITHOUT A DOUBT: "my baby will have my surname, Mr. MP is only a sperm bank."  I was solid as a rock, dear!  (I'm glad I decided not to have any baby, I won't be a good mother.  :p )

So how old is LZ? young (mentally) or mature?

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Post by fairy
, {0 w) H8 V" g+ m 晚婚晚育理論的又一犧牲品而已!唉!

Sorry, what does this means? 晚婚 . . . 犧牲品 =me  :confused:

montrealpost

"30出头"  border line, depends on your personality.
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I'm tired, going to bed.  U gals CONTINUE . . . .  hope LZ can make a sensible CHOICE for herself.  Good night!
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0 l5 s$ x# u- Q* r) Qp.s. LZ, whatever it will be, don't forget it's YOUR choice and be responsible for it yourself.

p.p.s.  I've heard something about women who had abortion . . .  something something . . . . feel bad about aborted baby . . .   Hope whoever know what I'm pondering share some info.

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Post by 女人也好色
# l0 v& `% [2 @7 W0 v 男人呐,给不起爱为什么还要用暧昧来引诱人?

( g1 C, _4 [2 r3 S) O- LWe don't know if the guy was married.  Anyway, it's irrelevant.  Can LZ handle being single mother is the question, no?

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Post by msandra
* m, V' L% n/ R) e+ C  . . . . . Go to CLSC or find a nurse or social worker to talk. I am sure they will help. . . . .  

Thanks for chiming in, u have provided a lot of info. that can help LZ.  As for the "rest" . . . . . . . let's see if any single mother will share experience.    The 2 of us aren't any expert, not even mother. (I shouldn't have gotten into this topic, but it freaked me out to see 2 immediate replies in KEEPING BABY without any info. on LZ)

As for myself, u silly, if I had any baby, all my single friends will borrow it for fun, minimum 3 adopted fathers right away.  I didn't realize the possible problem of biological father claiming baby, then I would put 1 of my friend's name on then(is it really required  :confused: ).  However, everyone's situation is different.
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LZ, consider starting with CLSC.  Read msandra's reply again.  Take care and best of luck!!

montrealpost

Me too - 顶这2句话!  Ha ha!!
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Post by snowing
顶这句话!
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不过作为男人，大部分是不会或不敢。不想的恐怕不多!

[QUOTE=chelle]==>他真正敬爱你了，你赶他去找女人他都不想。

: K1 n. [5 _+ O5 `也请扬二嫂们 stop stop, thanks!!
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5 R; O, E- g/ k9 v9 E  u8 I青果, 也请 say a few words.  Lots of people on this posting replied with their sincerely and their hearts,  the least u could do is to thank them.  Furthermore, u better check your PM box.  Even if u don't like any PM, if any(I havn't send any), don't forget to thanks them and make sure your PM box has space.

# k( B) I# f- P' v/ |Operation or having baby, start taking care of your health.  Be positive!

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Post by Montrealove
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:confused:  :confused: how come u know? :confused:   are u a fortune teller  :p or have any inside story (another posting la).
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Oh, I love gossip   Wait for the snow falls, then come back and tell us all inside storieSS.  Now I go out and have fun!!

* ]. k0 S% |: ~: m; S :confused: 爱情结晶  :confused: - they eat + shit  + + :frown: read what 单身母亲s have written below.