prideone

Goodman007, Finally, somebody got your message. We came to this country we have to adjust ourselves. One of the most important reason we came here is its freedom, freedom of thinking, freedom of doing anything( leaglly for sure. There exists lof of rooms to move around. You can swim like fish or fly like birds. For sure, we have difficulties as immigrants, but do we have problems at home? do the local men and women have difficulties? they do maybe more than what we have. How they live? they live better life. Look at the individuals on the streets, are they rich people? no, they are as ordinary as us, but they behave differently, they behave confidently or at least pretend to be that way. Is it important for life? Yes, if you don't have confidence yourself how can others help you. It is your life, you are the one to live this life, you got to enjoy it. Past is memory, today is real, tommorow will be better if we enjoy today. Enjoy is not only drink, eat and sex. Enjoy is an attitude of life. A positive thinking, positive attitude. For my chinese fellow women, I suggest you dress well, make up beautifully, smile. My fellow men, dress well, more sports, keep neat and raise your head walking.  You, we as a people will feel better in this society. Remember people around you will treat you the way you treat yourself.

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GoodMan007

To Prideone:

I like most your points, and I wanna add some comments to what you mentioned--"Enjoy is an attitude of life. A positive thinking, positive attitude." The above saying is absolutely right, but very abstract.    
How can you get positive attitude? Many ways. However, you have do things naturally, not against human nature. When you did not have sex for more 16 months(if you are a mature person, say over 25), can you say you are still fine? For me the solution is to meet a lady (not prostitute) and to do sth. Maybe no love, but we may like each other (at least body).
    What I want to say is that we usually disorder the principals of nature.
  eek!  Local canadian are no good than us, but they are more natural (probably)due to they have no culture???? who knows
  eek!  Please do not be mad. I am only a simple and less well-educated, and I just express my stupid idea.
  :cool:  Some Advice: ok, I stop here. Dare not to say

prideone

goodman007,we are wasting our time. They, those lonely ladies do not get our  point. Or they do not understant what we are talking about.I think it is because either we are too complicated for them or we are too simple for them. Women and kids!