friend4u

What is "love" anyway? The word inevitably entails romance, sex and care. Love can generate great passion, energy and youthfulness; yet it can sometimes cause jealousy, sadness or loneliness. Life is beautiful because of love; yet life may become miserable if love disappears away. Do you believe in love? Do you have any message to convey to your loved one(s) (perhaps to a girl or boy friend or even to a one-night-stand "lover")? I wish you happy tonight, tomorrow, after tomorrow and forever!

verywell

你怎么是个理论家？

friend4u

Verywell: I wish I could fall within the category of those under your question mark. I guess I could as well "put theory into practice". Many thanks for your reply anyway.

yememe

Hi Friend4U, Love is not a easy topic to talk about. Do you even know what love is? Though I had a couple of girl friends before, I'm not sure if that were love. I know I was happy with them, but I really don't know what is the definition of Love. Now I'm married, I don't spend time to think about love or whether I have love. But I do know that I'm satisfied with my life, my family, though sometime I have trouble in my family. But you know that is the life, no sadness, no happiness. I'm not a person who has rich emotion, I only try to make me enjoy the life. Spend time with family, spend time with friends and colleagues for badminton, skating, tennis, ski and pingpong. Love is really not a word I think of and talk about everyday. I'm not a old man, I just wonder if you're already satisfied with your life, do you have to trouble yourself concerning Love?
Maybe you have different opinion, well, give me a lesson! It might interest me.

friend4u

Many thanks, Yememe, for taking the trouble to share your thoughts on this (honestly). I'm jealous that you have a happy family and you're satisfied with your life. Indeed, love is definitely an abstract word, which is subject to different construction by different people. So far as I'm concerned, perhaps I'm overly and unrealistically romantic. I'm told that I'm a perfectionist (unfortunately); yet at the same time I always tend to underestimate myself. I have great passion for love; yet for whatever reasons I always have fear for love. C'est difficile, n'est pas? I'm afraid I will never have the kind of love I long for. To me, life seems too complex. I guess I should forget about love altogether and start to play badminton as well. Who knows one day we may play it together! Please accept my sincere "love" to you and to your family.

verywell

i agree with yememe.

friend4u

Many thanks, Yememe, for taking the trouble to share your thoughts on this (honestly). I'm jealous that you have a happy family and you're satisfied with your life. Indeed, love is definitely an abstract word, which is subject to different construction by different people. So far as I'm concerned, perhaps I'm overly and unrealistically romantic. I'm told that I'm a perfectionist (unfortunately); yet at the same time I always tend to underestimate myself. I have great passion for love; yet for whatever reasons I always have fear for love. C'est difficile, n'est pas? I'm afraid I will never have the kind of love I long for. To me, life seems too complex. I guess I should forget about love altogether and start to play badminton as well. Who knows one day we may play it together! Please accept my sincere "love" to you and to your family.

yememe

Hi Frien4U,
romantic is never wrong, looking for perfect romance should be never given up. As long as you have the right, have the chance, continue your way to find your valuable Love. You know once you got married, you will be limited. I don't doubt that you will find your true love. God is fair, he will award people who deserve it and I'm sure you are the people who should be awarded. Your words bring me back to my life with the girls, (it happens rarely for me to review my life), one of them was like you, rich of emotion, passion of love, (I believe now it was love), however it was too short for the relationship. Now it seems I don't really care of love, instead, I put the focus on something else that please me. Well, it may not correct. Love should be a word for everyone.
Life is complicated, that is also the beauty of life. Looking at the life from other aspects will make your life easier and happier. Whenever you want to give up, remember, God is with you.

yememe

Hi Frien4U,
romantic is never wrong, looking for perfect romance should be never given up. As long as you have the right, have the chance, continue your way to find your valuable Love. You know once you got married, you will be limited. I don't doubt that you will find your true love. God is fair, he will award people who deserve it and I'm sure you are the people who should be awarded. Your words bring me back to my life with the girls, (it happens rarely for me to review my life), one of them was like you, rich of emotion, passion of love, (I believe now it was love), however it was too short for the relationship. Now it seems I don't really care of love, instead, I put the focus on something else that please me. Well, it may not correct. Love should be a word for everyone.
Life is complicated, that is also the beauty of life. Looking at the life from other aspects will make your life easier and happier. Whenever you want to give up, remember, God is with you.