[联谊] Housewife

Folks · 发表于 2003-4-26 19:50

The bond in a relationship is the attraction, chemistry and seduction -- this is also called subtleness, contray to CONTROL that is really a command. I suppose, Xian, being a man, you are not willing to be controlled but rather to participate in a "game of seduction".

If you are absolutely submissive and no confidence of yourself of being a man, who really should share the life with your loved one(rather than being controlled througout your life), then I am totally stunned.

This will be the real crap - so crappy that it brings shame upon manhood as well as womenhood because it twists the equality of humanbeings.

I am not at all that independant as what have you imagined. On the contrary, I live such a happy life these days because I could finally see my friends, men and women, as a free humanbeing - you have no idea what I have done for our community and how I have been helping people.

Nevertheless, I wish you very good luck and enjoy your whatever life path you decided to choose.

helloworld · 发表于 2003-4-28 09:09

I agree with Xian's comments. At first, I thought the housewife and Forks were the former couple and continued their post-divorce fight here under this forum. It's such an ordinary topic and simply evolves more complicated. At least I didn't see anything too odd in housewife's posts - plus such a BBS is nothing formal like academic research but a virtual place to have some fun, although more serious ideas/comments would help create value and build up our voices for the Chinese community as a whole.

I think the Housewife brought a very good point in her reply - that is Forks' attitude problem might have contributed to the ending up in his relationship with his ex-wife in a divorce- even though it's too harsh to say that he deserved it. After all I believe that no one would have ever hoped for an unfortunate result at the first place.

Again, I didn't see anything too extreme or weird in the housewife's opening remarks, and I wouldn't be surprised even if housewife were a man trying to make some fun or being merely a joke. So on the contrary to what Forks thought, it was you, not the housewife that looked like somebody's ex-wife. I mean the comments you made regarding an unknown person (even a lay) didn't seem to be from the mouth of a guy to say the least! And further contrary to what you thought, it was you, not the housewife, that may need treatment or counseling from a psychiatrist (you problem may be more severe than what CLSC can diagnosis and offer a cure). Also, have you had any trouble from your parents or bad impact in your childhood? How could you link such a simple matter to someone's parents, control, money, and so on, which almost mounted to personal attack? Forks, what a deeply troubled man. It's too bad that your expertise in other areas didn't work well in your personal life. You ex-wife may feel relieved if she ever had a chance to read what you have posted.

Last point, for the "great community work" that you claimed - you may open a new topic that focuses specifically on your devotion - to me it's more like a typical speech from a small politician who had just got beaten and lost his campaign! And your underlining attitude towards Xian and housewife doesn't seem like helping people neither. And above all, please, don't judge on people!

Anyway, come on buddy, let's all be positive.

housewife · 发表于 2003-4-28 11:10

Haha,My god, I never expect my post brought a big topic.
My purpose is,like XIAN said below, just want to make some friends with same background.
I AM a woman not a guy.

helloworld · 发表于 2003-4-28 11:19

It is indeed Xiao Ti Da Zuo.

Folks · 发表于 2003-4-28 21:38

Your GPA must be AAA to make such a reasoning

housewife · 发表于 2003-4-29 09:01

Helloworld, of course your IQ and EQ are A++. somebody's EQ is 0.

redwings · 发表于 2003-4-29 09:47

Forgive Folks, he's got no sense of humor, and he's now mentally sick after his divorce.

helloworld · 发表于 2003-4-29 09:50

In such a beautiful spring day, we should have it the spring way! -- Enjoy the sunshine everyone.

xian · 发表于 2003-4-29 19:19

Summer's coming! Let just get it over with.

Folks, I don't think you are a mean guy... somehow I like you a bit. At least, you sounds like one of those we call "性情中人". If we met in real life, we probably could be buddies, I mean, who knows.

I like the tune of Helloworld's. Let's all be positive and enjoy life instead of destroy it.

Good luck to all of you!

Coffee (or beer) anyone?

dahab · 发表于 2004-10-28 03:37

hello housewifeeee

i am single, n ...... may be u can teach me something if u want
u can email me @chaoren_gao@hotmail.com:cool: