I fully agree.
True love or soul mate comes by in its own timetable.
Can't predict it nor rush it.
Friends, on the other hand,are relatively easier to find.
for NBC,actually, why not make some friends first? and i totally agree with what woodcome said.anyway life is short and not easy, especially for immigrant here,so we must learn to enjoy it. let's figue it out instead of complain or blame. i do hope someday i can see NBC'post here, like" i've already got him who can beat my heart" take care, NBC.