|
xiaozhenxian, 谢谢, 我已经email给你.
$ k( N1 i- V2 ^% z ( v- T9 K; ~. h8 T3 E2 O* ]
著名的sunshine先生/女士, 结婚只是表示两人愿意成为一种世人所承认的正式关系, 这跟寻求心灵归属是两回事.
1 v. {0 X- D7 E' \ - b/ I3 e; f" F, ?' c) W
正因为我朋友中不信教的那方不想为了结婚而信教(那样信教才是"surface"), 才在此求助, 她的男友也不是那种极端教徒, 他不会把自己的看法强加到别人头上. 如果哪天女方能真正"inner heart's turning to God", 她会自己加入的.: Z* B9 A+ @+ T4 H1 l& d
9 s5 _5 R& `9 n( m# g$ r* E
总之结婚是个仪式, 如果能受到教堂的祝福最好(因为毕竟有一方是信教的). e s/ P* h% L8 m1 J9 u0 j
8 \' ?9 m, w, Q+ O Post by sunshine ! ^' {- f; Y3 f) x: u6 p y" R2 z
A few months ago, somebody anwsered this question.
/ k0 M0 |0 s" ]* o
7 u; ~2 Z% d0 |& B' D. D9 k( pBut I wonder why your friend seeks for surface stuff not inner heart's turning to God. I mean, in the situation that one of the two is not a believer, the true believer should try his/her best to help the other come back from perishing.
* Z# x) f, W i# L [+ g* m
% {8 J0 w: h+ q+ tWhat is the good if he/she get a surface ceremony, not a true love from a heart who loves the Lord? One heart is still hard with sinful characteristics. The marriage will not be fully blessed.; @) z* Y8 u5 X7 t- V: ]' \
6 X( ~5 b, i/ T+ {$ l* v
福 音 John
0 I1 y! C' m0 R6 p3 F<TABLE cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=0 width=488 border=0><TBODY><TR><TD vAlign=top noWrap>4:21</TD><TD vAlign=top></TD><TD vAlign=top></TD></TR><TR><TD vAlign=top noWrap>4:22</TD><TD vAlign=top></TD><TD vAlign=top></TD></TR><TR><TD vAlign=top noWrap>4:23</TD><TD vAlign=top></TD><TD vAlign=top></TD></TR><TR><TD vAlign=top noWrap>4:24</TD><TD vAlign=top></TD><TD vAlign=top></TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE> |
|