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xiaozhenxian, 谢谢, 我已经email给你.
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. N# s7 A+ g; V- H6 b; z8 E- }" Y著名的sunshine先生/女士, 结婚只是表示两人愿意成为一种世人所承认的正式关系, 这跟寻求心灵归属是两回事. % J& I! S# ^: o0 N4 ?
& E& P8 [+ p) q+ b' p' Q0 p' Z9 }正因为我朋友中不信教的那方不想为了结婚而信教(那样信教才是"surface"), 才在此求助, 她的男友也不是那种极端教徒, 他不会把自己的看法强加到别人头上. 如果哪天女方能真正"inner heart's turning to God", 她会自己加入的.
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总之结婚是个仪式, 如果能受到教堂的祝福最好(因为毕竟有一方是信教的). - S9 x7 K7 q6 b5 S$ B/ o# _
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A few months ago, somebody anwsered this question.
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j0 A* D& l' D2 r( X+ YBut I wonder why your friend seeks for surface stuff not inner heart's turning to God. I mean, in the situation that one of the two is not a believer, the true believer should try his/her best to help the other come back from perishing., W2 i$ l; {6 `: d) R$ B
* l; u3 w/ V' t3 r; [( yWhat is the good if he/she get a surface ceremony, not a true love from a heart who loves the Lord? One heart is still hard with sinful characteristics. The marriage will not be fully blessed.
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