leyalehaha

这种情况, 先得看双方是否是真心的,还是大家都是出来玩的, 男人对女人是否真心,不是用嘴巴去说的, 从行动看得出来,有困难,无论是经济上的,还是心理上的,生病了,生活上的,等等, 对你是真的好,还是目的只是想骗你上床?
你的朋友对他是付出了真感情? 还是寂寞玩玩的?
如果他们两人都是逢场做戏, 那你就少管了,让他们去吧.
如果这个男人对你的朋友也是真的,只是想离婚没办法, 不是出于玩弄感情, 我建议是可以放过他的. 只叹没有缘分.
如果这个男人是玩弄感情的男人, 他是应该得到惩罚的, 告诉他的老婆, 他老婆是有权知道他的丈夫的为人的, 怎么做是他们夫妻两的事了, 就算他老婆肯放过他,他以后也没有那么多的机会出来鬼混,欺骗其他的女孩子.

Post by yiwen123
the girl is my friend, she told me everything, and she has some evidence.

She wANTS TO break the man's marrige, because the man kick her out. She asked for opinion now.

xuqi20000

Post by leyalehaha
这种情况, 先得看双方是否是真心的,还是大家都是出来玩的, 男人对女人是否真心,不是用嘴巴去说的, 从行动看得出来,有困难,无论是经济上的,还是心理上的,生病了,生活上的,等等, 对你是真的好,还是目的只是想骗你上床?
你的朋友对他是付出了真感情? 还是寂寞玩玩的?
如果他们两人都是逢场做戏, 那你就少管了,让他们去吧.
如果这个男人对你的朋友也是真的,只是想离婚没办法, 不是出于玩弄感情, 我建议是可以放过他的. 只叹没有缘分.
如果这个男人是玩弄感情的男人, 他是应该得到惩罚的, 告诉他的老婆, 他老婆是有权知道他的丈夫的为人的, 怎么做是他们夫妻两的事了, 就算他老婆肯放过他,他以后也没有那么多的机会出来鬼混,欺骗其他的女孩子.

双方是真心的，也是出来玩的，男人用嘴巴说，也用行动做，男的很关心女的生活，也是想跟她上床，哪一个告诉我他在生活中见过有单一体的人了，又不是儿童读物中的人物，有好人坏蛋的严格分明，这些是用不着说的，这么清晰明了的事都能搞得乱七八糟，是个本事。问题到底是谁跟谁，从贴子开始看，是楼主发现了她朋友与别人老公同居，他想告诉那个男的老婆真相，可后来又出现 break the man's marrige, because the man kick her out，说明早都公开化了，根本不存在揭发不揭发的问题了，对楼主说了她家的所有事，并说有证据，讲这些话的显然只能是那个男的老婆，第三者是不会这样说的，可楼主发现她朋友与别人老公同居，她的朋友，也就是跟她说了所有事的那个人，到底是那个第三者，还是那个男的老婆，还是那个男的，这么乱七八糟的事能听着不糊涂，更是个本事。

szlh

这么乱七八糟的事能分析成这样，已经不糊涂了
我反正是糊涂，楼主是存心的，还是自己也糊涂，我就更糊涂了。

Post by xuqi20000
双方是真心的，也是出来玩的，男人用嘴巴说，也用行动做，男的很关心女的生活，也是想跟她上床，哪一个说他在生活中见过有单一体的人了，又不是儿童读物中的人物，有好人坏蛋的严格分明，这些是用不着说的，这么清晰明了的事都能搞得乱七八糟，是个本事。问题到底是谁跟谁，从贴子开始看，是楼主发现了她朋友与别人老公同居，他想告诉那个男的老婆真相，可后来又出现 break the man's marrige, because the man kick her out，说明早都公开化了，根本不存在揭发不揭发的问题了，对楼主说了她家的所有事，并说有证据，讲这些话的显然只能是那个男的老婆，第三者是不会这样说的，可楼主发现她朋友与别人老公同居，她的朋友，也就是跟她说了所有事的那个人，到底是那个第三者，还是那个男的老婆，还是那个男的，这么乱七八糟的事能听着不糊涂，更是个本事。

juliaca

I guess..........

the truth is:

LZ is the lady who has affair with a married man, now the man's wife came back to MTL and found some trails about this... the man kicked LZ out to save his marriage, LZ is struggling on .... if she should tell the truth to the man's wife to accelerate their break up... but at the same time, she is worrying about the man's reaction..... right ?

my suggestion: don't tell anything to his wife, otherwise the man will hate you for his whole life as if you destroy his marriage instead of himself. at the meantime, his wife maybe realize that she should do sth to save her marriage or her face.....hehe.

yiwen123

Post by juliaca
I guess..........

the truth is:

LZ is the lady who has affair with a married man, now the man's wife came back to MTL and found some trails about this... the man kicked LZ out to save his marriage, LZ is struggling on .... if she should tell the truth to the man's wife to accelerate their break up... but at the same time, she is worrying about the man's reaction..... right ?

my suggestion: don't tell anything to his wife, otherwise the man will hate you for his whole life as if you destroy his marriage instead of himself. at the meantime, his wife maybe realize that she should do sth to save her marriage or her face.....hehe.

WHO IS LZ?

yiwen123

she told me she already called the wife, and let her know what kind of persone her husband is.

And she said she realize that man is a cheater.

spring2005

我也觉得YIWEN是哪个GIRL的可能性大.

juliaca

Post by yiwen123
she said she realize that man is a cheater.

he is a cheater for sure at the beginning of any affair, why believe it is a true love? hehe.....day-dreaming!.....

newlifegirl1

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yiwen123

Post by spring2005
我也觉得YIWEN是哪个GIRL的可能性大.

i am that girl?  HAHA , interesting  ha.  

anyway, she is my best friend, we have known each other for a long time. When she is in trouble, I will try my best to help her.  

i am just coming here for suggestion to her. thanks everyone for  your reply, no matter that is friendly or not.