wang8

mikie
continue your guessing game if it entertains you. i don't know whats the meaning of interperate other people's display name here. cheap people deserve cheap game only. anyway, will i kill a crazy dog with my hands? no, i am not in the industry of hunting animals. leave you alone to bark seems to be the only rational choice. call me wang8, wa9.... just use your imaginations. you are a crazy dog living in a fantasy world.

Mikie

hey wang8,

it is getting interesting...   ...

so you didn't smoke anything. it is your natural syndrome of hyper-hysteria..      ...no wonder...

seriously, you should take some pills. you have a long way in front of you to go...9 years, oh no! 3 years maybe for you, for actuary exams, 1 year?? for m.d. 1 year?? for bar exam, and 6 months for pilot test (watchout this one though, they have tighened up security, a "vest" or chinese "马甲"might not help, they've already figured out that trick )...     ...

and what will you do for the rest of the days...you've got a thousand years for your life...entertaining is a must..   ..for me, and maybe some prestigious financial institutions will bid for you and keep you as a "mascot"...hoping that they will "live happily thereafter...."     ...they will pay us$15,000 a month...so that you will have a very decent life...in a glass, no, crystal cage....

Cystal

聪明的人知道该说什么和什么时候不该说.

wang8

it depends who you are.
to the person i know, sure we should be really careful about what we are saying.
but to my friend, i never afraid to deliver what i believe is correct. please believe me, in real life, i am well beloved by my friends. i have no enemy at all.
on this BBS, i made many posts. it may sounds offsive to many many readers, but i truely believe if you read it in a postive attitude, it will benifit you in great time.
i will stop using bad words with all reader, no matter you agree with my point or against it. i won't ask your respect, but i will certainly respect all other readers.
thank you

xianren

出国，去北美，曾经是多少有志青年的梦想，记得上学的时候，不少有志之士耳边听着 VOA（Voice Of America）墙上挂着 The Map of USA，可谓身在中国心向北美。然而，靠留学到北美的毕竟凤毛麟角。中加两国互不接收独立移民的协定在1995年到期未续签以后，北美的大门哗啦一下敞开了，来北美一夜之间变得简单而容易了。

出国，对不少中国人而言，这个目的很明确，我就是要出去；然而，出国之后干什么，目的就不那么明确了。去年回国的时候，周围七八个朋友整天围着讨教如何办理移民的方法。我一再告诫朋友们，出国并不难，而难的是一种选择，选择未来的生活道路不是一件简单而轻松的事情。要出国，一定要想清楚图个啥，否则，初到国外面临很多困难的时候，你会后悔的。

在前仆后继的出国大军中，有的人是为了却一个宿怨，有的人是为了子女，有的人是为了换个活法，有的人是为了开眼界长见识，有的是为了获得一个北美文凭，有的是为了在有生之年享受一下人类所创造的先进文明（物质和社会的）。无论哪一种目的，自己一定要想清楚。在目的明确的时候，你不但不会因“鱼和熊掌不可兼得”而失望，还兴许会为达到目的而庆幸。

不能否认有些朋友就不宜出国，有的朋友出国带有很大的盲目性。或者只是因为看到不如自己的邻居或者同事同学都出去了，我为什么不能？或者有的为了逃避各种纷扰，把解决问题的美好希望寄托在西方。希望目前正在办理出国的朋友，建议你三思。已经来的朋友，想回去，祖国那温暖的怀抱是永远敞开着的。但是，同样希望三思，回国赚了大钱以后又怎么样？该怎么生活？在一个官腐民败乌烟瘴气的社会中很难说能找到什么感觉。

Cystal

I am glad that wnag8's new atitude. You are in the real world and always want to wake up some daydreamers. At least, I think you dare to say what you want to say.

To xianren, i am very agree your opinion. When some friends in China ask me about how to get here, I really don't encourage some of them. Since to my opinion, they are not siutable for liveing aboard. However, how about myself?? I still have doubt what I have done is right or not??  :confused:

redneck

找“感觉”，好时髦的词儿。查了一下《红氏大辞典》（Compiled by: Redneck, 1st Edition），得到如下解释：

【中国人的感觉】是外在的，感觉别人和社会对自己的感觉。挣多少钱，过什么日子，全是为了别人怎么评价自己。别人说牛、喝彩、掌声，是找到感觉的标志。
【西方人的感觉】是内在的，别人怎么感觉无所谓，我就是我。这次美国被袭后的反应就是典型的例证。

yaoyao

一直在关注着这个话题,说实话我也很想知道大家的想法和做法.作为即将出去的一员,各位所走过的路,各位的感觉...虽然和我以后的经历虽然不尽相同,但是有很多东西也是类似的.虽然现在看了很多,也听很多朋友说过出去了刚开始会比较辛苦...但我想很多事都是那样的,真正经历了才能体会那种感觉吧.

现在和朋友聊起来,我也还是说,我并不知道真正出去之后,我会选择在哪里生活.的确,有很多人出去之后都会觉得,外面的世界并不象我们想象中的那么美...我记得我有想移民的念头的时候,有在国外的朋友就劝我不要出去.我告诉他,我不愿意再这样过下去了.我说我可以看到我未来二十年的生活,都是一个模式,感觉自己已经完全没有了追求.当我和他说完这种感觉的时候他说他就不再劝我了,还告诉我他自己当初也是这样出去的...我想我们今天选择出去,肯定都有自己的原因和理由.可是这毕竟是到一个陌生的国度去重新开始自己的生活,当然也会遇到很多问题...所以,当你想回来的时候,最好能慎重考虑,再坚持一下...坚持就是胜利.或许再坚持一下,你的想法又会变了.

当然,如果实在觉得不好,我也是不反对回国的.但曾看过一份资料,出国后又回来的人不是没有,但是在经过了头几年的艰苦奋斗之后,98%的人都会选择留下来.如果慎重考虑之后还是想回来,那就回来吧!回来相信也是有很多机会的...     

genie

YAOYAO,
出来后,你将很快就知道你余下的日子(何止二十年)将是什么样的了...我常看到很多这里的老华侨一脸茫然,没任何表情...好象在等死...这是一个没激情的地方! 死未.不过,出来了,可以有别的选择(当然包括杀回去)...也不少.这应该是出来的好处.
  :rolleyes:

MrMontreal

When I really ttoo boring here,
I will go some whereelse or try to find sth new..

At least now you could still enjoy the dancing clubs and could pretend to be a student or could pretent to be a helpless, but why should we get reeducation here? why should we work for jobs far unqualify for us? I try not to be a slay of the Civilized, so I decide to taste a big  in the bars,the casinos,the views and of course many the...

Well this is your real life, your steps are here now for real, you can always turn towards other ways, but make sure it's real and not a step in dreams only, so watch your step.