hi-hi

每年来几万中国人，肯定素质有差别，愿每个人都能做好。 :rolleyes:   :mad:      

xiaopeng

今天出门脚下没踩着香蕉皮吧？都那么大火气，真面对面还不得打起来？以前都没什么仇吧？哎，我看这热闹很久了，让我说句心里话：谁都有理，只是态度都不太友好，都是同胞……大可不必，哈哈。没什么事早点洗洗睡吧，我再不来了。跟帖的别骂我喔，在异乡给老乡数落一顿——很不爽的。

ccquebec

别到了这里就总觉着受了歧视,生了什么气,简直是自找.在国内各地的歧视比这里严重多了,在北京,在上海,对外地人歧视的多么厉害,这里对你够尊敬了.岁数大了,来到这里,别动不动就自找气受.你是语言不好,在国内遇见这种情况可以同店员沟通,因为都讲中文,别生气了,回家先练练口语,别挺大岁数,在国外给中国人丢脸,动不动就生气,开朗点好不好,这不是中国,装蛋就找错地方了.

tiresome

我本来没打算再来光顾这个帖子，感谢网络这个虚拟的社会让这么多人有露脸的地方，否则不知会有多少人鳖死了，把生活中自己的失意和不如意发到别人身上却也是一种“转移疗法”。说别人语言不好的人，我不能说能和老外比，但比你还不是什么要命的事情。论给中国人争脸，你以为就凭你这种连自己都不尊重自己的人吗？

以前在国内时就上这个网，看了许多XIANREN的作品，凭心而论，非常喜欢，困难是有，生活中处处可见，如果再没有点希望人该怎么活。就象我发的帖子，我就是有牢骚，有牢骚就要发，有牢骚是很正常的事情，这跟年龄大小没关系，跟语言也没关系，因为我的语言不是问题，用得着这么恶毒的谩骂吗？下次遇到不痛快的事我还是要说，既然这个地方就是给人发情绪的就也应该可以发牢骚。

通过这一段的帖子之争，我越发感觉到人的确没有种族之分，只有人的差异。我有几位鬼佬朋友，每个人都不同，所以使得我和每个人的关系都有差别，就象跟中国人做朋友一样，也有远近亲疏。每个人生活在不同的环境里使他在表达自己的意思方面都有别人不同的方式，某些人喜欢用这个的字眼，另些人喜欢用那个的字眼，不过我想在这世界上伤人很容易，而帮助别人却很难，如果某些人只会恶言恶语这种本能的反映就不要在这显眼了。放心，这个帖子我是不会再跟了，不过等着瞧下一个吧。

ccquebec

抱歉,本人发的那个帖子言语过于尖刻.是的tiresome说的比较对,人种族差异不大,其实主要是体现在文化上的.我在国内时也从来不说哪给地方的人怎么样,只讲某个人怎么样.所以,我觉的人的差异主要在个体,但好多人把自己身边人或是自己城市的人的个体优势当成是群体优势,总是拿来歧视别的地方人,本人在北京打工身有体会,去上海游玩身有体会,去香港更是身有体会,反而来到这里体会就淡了.总之,我们来到这里就是外国人,善待自己,善待别人,让中国人在这里少些争吵,少些互相倾扎,多些团结.谢谢!

ypwang

now i agree with wang8 more and more, he is a strongee in life despite some of his cynical opinions.
tiresome , dont be so sensitive to foreigner`s attitude , that is nonsense.

tryit

Under most of the circumstances, it's OURSELVES,not the others, work!

Amongst most of the elements, it's our ATTITUDE, not the action, count!

In our Chinese BBS, it's FRIENDLY, not the satirizing, being perferred!

SUNGANG

我为wang8兄鸣不平
我到想请问fishbird兄：你不远万里的来到加拿大难道是你大脑中的操作系统出了问题，不得不如此？
如果不是，那岂不是嫌弃老祖宗的土地？
不在于用什么语言说。
而在于说什么
难道用汉语说粗话就比用英语讲道理显得爱国？
世界上有很多事情是很容易做的，比如说自己的母语，比如指责别人不爱国。

EnjoyLife

" 理想和现实有差距,面对现实需要勇气."
I strongly agree yanghb!!!

I have similar experiece as tiresome. There are one fast restarant, every time I go, they serve me very slowly, always let me wait. I was upset. Actually I was not sure if they are mean to me because of racial descriminatin or just they don't like me as a single individual.  

Sometimes I complained when I felt this, and then felt better. If I felt necessary, I would quarrel with those people whiel trying not be really angry in my mind :-). It is better than keep the grievance in heart.

Besides, I feel people are same in that he/she will give up if you are more strong than him/her. I think some of our Chinese friends are behaving too nice, especially with white people, it won't bring their respect to us. My experience when dealing with Americans is, be strong, even aggressive, but in a good manner.

Again, thank you Tiresome for sharing your feelings. Maybe we are a little more sensitive in this matter, and we have less direct frustrating experience of unfair treatment in China, but we definitely have the right to clarify and/or fight against any descrimination.  Free expression of opinion and feeling is part of western culture I feel good about.

shanshan

I like EnjoyLife's attitude. BTW, I am not showing off my English. For some reasons, I can only read Chinese but can not write in Chinese.
Everybody sometimes has the feeling to complain when we think we are treated unfairly. Everybody sometimes needs advice from others but in a nice way.
Discrimination exists everywhere even in China. In Canada, I believe the situation must be better than in other foreign countries as there are many different ethnics here. I am very proud of being a Chinese. Here few Chinese live on welfare. Most of us have high-level education. Although some of us are studying in universities and living on loan and bursuary, we are preparing to be a taxes payer later. Let's be confident and less sensitive.