How do your wife feel about you? 10 years is a lot for a marriage for one of those days. 50% marriages are end up divorced. On top of that, there are a lot dead marriages, people just be afraid of making change in their lifes. So this is life, we have to live with it....
To 37 lady.
37 years old is gold age for a lady, You have strong desire now. I know that you are happy with your family. Just want to fins a little excited. I give you a idea. Try to find a family to exchang wife/Husband. The you both will be happy. Be honest.