Quebecbaby

真的很谢谢大家!Especially folk,hiaeamontreal,da xi gua and blueangel, thank you guys! thank you for your understanding and suggestion!网上这个虚幻的世界总使我觉得更亲近...

应该采取什么样的心态其实我知道,我现在追求的就是一份踏实的生活,无论在哪里,真的厌倦了一个人漫无目的的漂泊.可似乎还是觉得很"力不足",但我还没有放弃,也许,慕然回首,它就在"灯火阑珊处"吧 :-)

xiaparis

Hi, I have the same experience like, and I left our country justly for 4 years too. I'm roamingthe the word from China to Paris, and than to Montreal. I have the same feeling like you. Cheers, lonely.

keqi

"你若是那含泪的射手，我就是那一只不再躲闪的白鸟......"

credit

怎有这么多感概？有机会要交流交流。聊聊。留个EMAIL吧

Folks

In life, one needs to dream first -- inspiring courage derives from one's beautiful and splendid dreams. Once you have envisioned where you really belong, you can work on it - Thousands Miles Start From Step One (Even Stephen Covey quoted our ancient philosephy).

What is it -- that you have always wanted to do but have not done yet for various reasons?

"Work On It" doesn't translate into your dream profession and/or date overnight. It merely builds up the solid foundation where you can stand tall and high - to see further. Opportunity coupled with or without luck can be grasped by those with a vision.

Back a few years ago, I.T. profession was insanely hot -- A friend of mine strongly recommended me to do a degree in that field however my background is quite different. I hestiated...many people told me that I could be very successful with the computers since I knew the basics very well.  Someone my 6th convinced me that I would hate that profession...I was right - now I am very happy with what I chose back then. On the other hand, many computer experts are out of work ( I am not here to debate which profession is better).  I am just saying that one should do something he will be happy on the long term though we all did something that we hate to pay the bills.

I like BlueAngel's "down-to-earth" concept - perfection does exist in the world of artists, muscians and some writers. Back to reality, we have to deal with lots of imperfections - different elements make the colors: Foliage is splendid is becuase of the blue sky, crispy breeze and open-field...

Folks

Correction:
4th paragraph - Somehow my 6th sense convinced me(not someone ....)

thanksgive

看了你的贴子真有些心酸。  
来这里一年了经历的也不少。虽然很自豪自己能远离父母而独立，也很喜欢这里，但是总觉得自己在休一个长长的假，一切还没有上正轨。希望自己会有所长进，一年一个样，三年大变样。
我理解你所说的一切，有时候我也有看不清前途的感觉，也很害怕过了几年还是两手空空孤身一人。但是我信命，生命是公平的，得到的同时注定会失去什么。

xiaparis

keqi, what does this XI MO RONG sentens means here?
And for others: I feel often like orphan, do you have the same feeling?

lowkey

Hi, hiaeamontreal
Can I borrow your book? 我现在正好有时间，也有心情， 只想读书，我觉得我失去了生活的目标和向上的动力，好像‘我看不到天地的边，不知道该往何处去’，是我真的老了，还是加拿大使人变的安于现状？好久没有读过书了，很需要补充些营养，如果可以的话，请回电话813-7720，先谢过。

July3

I have the same feeling as yours.

"The 7 Habbits of Highly Effective People" is a nice book. Our company once gave everybody as a gift and pushed us to study.