L’AUTOMNE

1。女人与外交家：

一个女人，如果她说“不”，那表示“可能”，如果她说“可能”，那表示“是”，如果一个女人说“是”，那她就不是一个女人了。

外交家则相反，如果他说“是”，则意味着“可能”，如果他说“可能”，则表示“不”，如果他说“不”，那就不是一个外交家了。

2。女人如果对你说：“我恨你！”， 就意味着她喜欢你女人要说“我不恨你！”，那就意味着她也不爱你。

3。 女人说“你真坏！”，实际上是意味着她喜欢你，但女人说：“你是个好人！”，那估计你没希望了。

wazi

上海妹妹最爱，
肚兜短裤吊带，
只要心情不坏，
天天喜欢做爱，
姿势千奇百怪，
招招命中要害，
还非要和老外！

CNN

Nice job, wazi!!

Juliet

我觉得一个25岁的女人如果很成熟，就一定很世故。她想要的或许不仅是身份，稳定的生活，帅不帅的问题，还有很多别的，比如一定的社会地位（我只是猜）。她现在才25岁，当然明白还有很多选择机会的。

wang8

1.78 M is not that tall.
your muscular may not be that muscular in that girls eyes.
tsinghua is not such a good school.
system engeneer working for csco doesn't sound that impressing.
self claimed good love making skill may not be that skillful.
so the question remains, "you qualification maybe ok for some chinese but will a shanghainese marry you?"

世风日下

Wang8, you are really a philosopher.

fallen_angel

Correct me if I am wrong.  All I got from what you wrote, is that, you are handsome, tall, rich, with a loving heart, and she is not so pretty, chubby, poor student. You think you are more competitive than her, but she doesn't want to marry a stud like you.

Handsome, tall, rich doesn't make you a better man... There's something called personality... "反正当时我并没有认真的念头" from this I can't see you don't have a great personality to love.  I think she is smart, she can see that you won't be the one to share life together.   

and I don't like the topic you entitled. Love has nothing to do with where she came from.  Does the title means you are ashamed to love someone from Shanghai, or proud to love someone from shanghai?

There's a great sound is perfectly for you, by Shania Twain-- that don't impress me much

I've known a few guys who thought they were pretty smart
But you've got being right down to an art
You think you're a genius-you drive me up the wall
You're a regular original, a know-it-all
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're special
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're something else
Okay, so you're a rocket scientist
That don't impress me much
So you got the brain but have you got the touch
Don't get me wrong, yeah I think you're alright
But that won't keep me warm in the middle of the night
That don't impress me much

I never knew a guy who carried a mirror in his pocket
And a comb up his sleeve-just in case
And all taht extra hold gel in your hair oughtta lock it
'Cause Heaven forbid it should fall outta place

Oh-oo-oh, you think you're special
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're something else

Okay, so you're Brad Pitt
That don't impress me much
So you got the looks but have you got the touch
Don't get me wrong, yeah I think you're alright
But that won't keep me warm in the middle of the night
That don't impress me much

You're one of those guys who likes to shine his machine
You make me take off my shoes before you let me get in
I can't believe you kiss your car good night
C'mon baby tell me-you must be jokin', right!

Oh-oo-oh, you think you're special
Oh-oo-oh, you think you're something else

Okay, so you've got a car
That don't impress me much
So you got the moves but have you got the touch
Don't get me wrong, yeah I think you're alright
But that won't keep me warm in the middle of the night

That don't impress me much
You think you're cool but have you got the touch
Don't get me wrong, yeah I think you're alright
But that won't keep me warm on the long, cold, lonely night
That don't impress me much

Okay, so what do you think you're Elvis or something...
Whatever
That don't impress me

ken8023

找到爱，当然是好事情。但怎样控制自己去爱，学会保护自己才是真。上海女人，很现实的，现实的你都无法想象。我刚刚分手的女朋友就是上海人。我了解的。

pj

"我有一份挺像样的工作, 在Cisco作系统工程师"
"毕竟我32岁了, 知道如何让女人快乐. "
"我是一个太冷静理性的人"
"我能给她一个稳定的生活, 给她一个身份, 我1米82, 很健壮, 身体很好, 也可以算是挺帅的. 而且即使我没有什么, 我也会为了她去努力的, "
我怎么觉得有点象征婚启示？不太象真实的心情故事！！！

世风日下

以下文章为转贴：
  
我看上海女孩娶不得ZT

一个上海女孩落到北方小伙子堆里，会发生什么情况，大家都是知道的。不少人就是会叶公好龙。写什么“上海女孩娶不得”。为什么上海女孩娶不得。据说有诸多毛病。

首先：要价高。
良鸟择木而栖。法拉利不可能卖小夏利的价钱，上海女孩如果是全国、全世界身价最高的，上海人应该值得骄傲。据说，当年的貂婵就是一个高价姑娘。难怪，有些人找到一个上海女朋友就要到处卖弄。谁也没有卖弄说：我泡了个北京的马子。

话说过来，有什么人找配偶会按图索冀，上海好象还是中国最早消灭买卖婚姻地方。当代女孩子的价目表只是唬人的东西。如果，你能吸引她，没什么条件，那女孩也会跟定你；反之，你不能吸引她，够条件她也不一定就会答理。

其次：懒。找老婆，不考虑有无共同语言，先考虑勤懒。我还以为是找女佣。这也反映部分人的择偶观。一次在外地和几个北方女孩子聚餐，她们好奇的向我打听，在上海男人真的会烧菜、洗碗、做家务，那种不可思议的眼神，简直像原始人见到电视机。我这个会做家务的小男人也被奚落了一番。餐毕，我提议按北方规矩女人刷碗，却不见有人动手，还一致提议按上海规矩办。同样几年前在上海，一次和几个女同事吃工作餐，餐毕，大家都懒得动手刷碗，推来退去。最后，我提议我来刷碗，那几个上海女孩，马上动手，七手八脚的把碗刷了，最后说了句这不是男孩干的活。因为，上海的男女关系相对平等，所以给人印象上海女孩懒。但是，就我个人感觉，中国南方人，不论男女都普遍比北方人略勤快些。

但是上海的计划生育搞得好，所以独生子女率高，娇生惯养确实有。有个电影，剧中吴倩莲饰演的被崇坏了的富家女，为了刘德华饰演的男主角做了一锅夹生饭。爱就是那么神奇。但是作为一个男人，难道忍心看着化学洗涤剂腐蚀爱妻的玉手，厨房的油烟熏黄曾令你心怡的脸。既然是个有抱负的男人就应该有信心雇个用人，而不是娶个用人。

另外，还有诸多缺点。如果，一个女孩子故意把那么多缺点暴露在某人面前，说明她对此人全无好感，而且此人认为有可能是胡搅蛮缠的家伙。这是一种针对最不受欢迎（拎勿清）的求爱者使用的拒绝方式。

上海女孩娶不得（得到的得），反映的实际是上海女孩娶不到。为什么娶不到。

中国之大，各地人的思维观念的差距是很悬殊的。比如，北方多是些个个胸怀大志，一屋不扫便能扫平天下伟丈夫，而上海出的是些讲究先修身、齐家，再谈治国、平天下的小市民。所以，上海的国民生产总值是北京的两倍，中国科学院里沪籍院士是京籍院士的六倍，部长级以上干部竟是上海小男人，难觅北京大丈夫。

这种思想观念的差异在男女地位关系和婚姻关系上也会产生断层。有位嫁过北方人的上海老知青对我说，她对女儿的婚姻最大的要求就是嫁个正宗上海人。

这些思想观念的差异，有时在一言一行中都会反映出来。有一次某北方发达地区的男士骄傲地说：“我在家里从来不打老婆”，言下之意他已经是北方尊重妇女的楷模了。前些年《上海人在东京》播出后，就有人提出陈道明是演不象上海男人的。比如，和女士同行，上海男人会自然地为女士拉个门什么的，陈只会把手放在口袋里。

回到主题，就像一个阿拉伯人要求一个欧美女子成为他妻室中的一员，会有什么结果，同样如果一个不具备成为上海女婿的人向某上海姑娘求爱会有什么结果。