meander

为什么,婚外的性是可耻的?
为什么,婚外的喜欢是遭人唾弃的?
为什么,人压抑自己的本性,就是高尚?

婚姻幸福时,你为什么不可以再多得到些?
情感消散了,你为什么还要苦苦维持哀求?
寻找寄托时,你为什么需要专著忠诚唯一?

为什么,我不可以活得自我一些?
如果,我需要,我为什么不可以得到?
如果,我不要,我为什么不可以舍弃?
维系虚假的存在,生命的意义何在?

discovery

oneandone

i love lovemaking also. but....you should be clean, safe....

meander

STDs are big concerns, certainly I would not risk my health and life fooling around, it has to be safe, true.

whoknowsxyz

One may say that marriage signifies fidelity, commitment and responsibility. To have an extramarital affair may eventually lead to a breakdown of the family. This can have dare consequences (both financial and emotional). It just may be too dear to have an inamorata or inamorato dehors the marriage. It's a completely different story if you're a single or a divorcé(e), and you can definitively say "hey, this is a free country". Enjoy that freedom while you can!

meander

如果代价这么昂贵,为什么还有这么多人,前赴后继?
如果真的容易克制,为什么还有这么多人,痛苦不堪?

喜欢和被喜欢,爱和被爱,就是一生的主题.
人的需要是多重的,情感和肉体也未必永远是重合而不可分离的.
大部分人只是没有勇气去正视自己的另外一面,没有勇气让自己活得自我一些.
其实,肉欲本身是美丽,何必给予这么多枷锁,最终却是压抑自己.

junex

If you like sth in shopping centre, and you just take it before it belong to you, that is 'steal'.
if you park your car anyplace you want, you will sure get a traffic ticket...
As a human being, you have to follow some rules or take some responsabilities.

小魔女

不明白你到底要说情还是性，是“喜欢”和“爱”还是“肉欲”。这不一样，真的不一样。其实不管是什么，不管看上去多好玩，带着婚姻去玩都不好玩。不管多爱玩，在决定走进婚姻的时候就该收手了。     wink

meander

不管是什么,喜欢也好,爱也好,情也好,性也好,都由人的本性所促动.根基一样,情感的程度有所不同.婚姻不应该是杜绝本性的原因.

meander

我不赞成责任高于一切,这是对自我的淹灭.