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难得见男甩女，怎么这年头，我见到的多半都是女甩男？！

jamllam

Believe it or not, I'm going through this stage right now.  On his part, he's doing me a favor to have me stay in until May after the news of my status.  On my part, I'm seared by both resentment and shame for my ingratitude. What I can't put up with is he openly starts looking, literally in my face.

I went back to the computer only to find him still on a website checking the mails. One of the girls even said "I felt like you are my husband already". I put this girl into the blacklist.

He was furious... so am I.
Again remember this, there is always a silver lining to the cloud. Getting out of a relationship is hard, but one has to pull out, better fast - RAPIDEMENT!

Both for you and me. Good night

想昏的美女

两人相处，除了情感上的爱，还需要有相近的人生价值观。虽然在感情上我舍不得他，可是我俩对人生的体会有太大的差异，加上两人又都是要强好胜的人，很难向对方妥协太多。心痛之余，还不如趁早放自己一条生路，也给男人留足面子，等他先开口了断这段缘。

只怪这个冬天太长，情感滞在心里不能释怀。

今天，阳光灿烂，虽然风很大，毕竟，冬天过去了。冰封的情结总有一日会融解。

想昏的美女

i don't know what kind of your status is...the most important thing in one's life is always know who you are and what you want.
take care.

Post by jamllam
Believe it or not, I'm going through this stage right now. On his part, he's doing me a favor to have me stay in until May after the news of my status. On my part, I'm seared by both resentment and shame for my ingratitude. What I can't put up with is he openly starts looking, literally in my face.

I went back to the computer only to find him still on a website checking the mails. One of the girls even said "I felt like you are my husband already". I put this girl into the blacklist.

He was furious... so am I.
Again remember this, there is always a silver lining to the cloud. Getting out of a relationship is hard, but one has to pull out, better fast - RAPIDEMENT!

Both for you and me. Good night

xiyuanfans

Post by 想昏的美女
两人相处，除了情感上的爱，还需要有相近的人生价值观。虽然在感情上我舍不得他，可是我俩对人生的体会有太大的差异，加上两人又都是要强好胜的人，很难向对方妥协太多。心痛之余，还不如趁早放自己一条生路，也给男人留足面子，等他先开口了断这段缘。

只怪这个冬天太长，情感滞在心里不能释怀。

今天，阳光灿烂，虽然风很大，毕竟，冬天过去了。冰封的情结总有一日会融解。

再对不过。和一个对的人相爱，多好

公元2009

你说对了,俺可是天天都开心呢.
今年正好开始聚一聚,等咱俩聚得好了,明年公元2009就可以抱个大娃娃玩玩?

Post by 想昏的美女
你开心吗?那俺就找你了,不过,现在才2008...

waitingyouF

MM倒是个成熟的人，自愈能力蛮强的。知道最重要的是自己什么样，自己想要的是什么，自己看重的是什么，很好。不过，两个人在一起，真的没必要争个你高我低的，太伤感情。也许你们还太年轻。。。anyway, dont  sad because it is over, just smile because it happened.

今天又是一个艳阳天。俺喜欢阳光灿烂的日子，喜欢跟阳光有关的一切。。。

呵呵，再睡个好觉！

shimly

Post by 想昏的美女
两人相处，除了情感上的爱，还需要有相近的人生价值观。虽然在感情上我舍不得他，可是我俩对人生的体会有太大的差异，加上两人又都是要强好胜的人，很难向对方妥协太多。心痛之余，还不如趁早放自己一条生路，也给男人留足面子，等他先开口了断这段缘。

只怪这个冬天太长，情感滞在心里不能释怀。

今天，阳光灿烂，虽然风很大，毕竟，冬天过去了。冰封的情结总有一日会融解。

多好的娃啊，连分手都还顾及对方的面子

同意要有相近的人生价值观，最好能为同一个梦想奋斗

很难妥协太多有时是因为过于爱自己，爱对方多一点吧，当然先找到值得的

想昏的美女

男人嘛,只要顾了他的面子别的都好说

好象有句经典:嫁人要嫁一个爱你多过爱他自己的人.如果爱对方多于爱自己...那叫奉献

我在这里混淆视听...西西:p

Post by shimly
多好的娃啊，连分手都还顾及对方的面子

同意要有相近的人生价值观，最好能为同一个梦想奋斗

很难妥协太多有时是因为过于爱自己，爱对方多一点吧，当然先找到值得的

想昏的美女

性格使然, 和年龄无关.
如果可以象MM那样开开心心,什么也不想地晒着太阳就好了. 羡慕ING...

Post by waitingyouF
MM倒是个成熟的人，自愈能力蛮强的。知道最重要的是自己什么样，自己想要的是什么，自己看重的是什么，很好。不过，两个人在一起，真的没必要争个你高我低的，太伤感情。也许你们还太年轻。。。anyway, dont sad because it is over, just smile because it happened.

今天又是一个艳阳天。俺喜欢阳光灿烂的日子，喜欢跟阳光有关的一切。。。

呵呵，再睡个好觉！