beaugarcon

If you major in computer science, you may understand my points better:

1. How does a religion play its role in one's life?

Most of chinese immigrate to Canada from China do not have a full version of religion, which means you do not have a book like Christian's Bible, Muslim's Qran,
Buddist Scripture, even you do not agree with communist's materism. Then the problem comes, with what's your judgement system?

If  somebody do everything only according to his or hers personal experience, many conflicts could occur between you and you sponse , even among your friends, relitives because life track varies depending on one's home training, schooling, life circle, something, you could not change it. your viewpoint is limited without learning wisdom from saints.

Most of chinese learns wisdom from Kong Saint, westners learn and pratise their wisdom from Jesus Christ, Others learn wisdom from Buddism, or Qran.

What I suggest is to learn Human's history, then you become maturer and wiser. If you are not on a high level to master communism , try to study history or other religion first.

According to scientist's study, the only way to behave as a high-qualified man or woman, is to study and pratise it every week or every day. This way  can change your operating system, or you will stay only on  a BIOS level even less, your actions are not compatible with others, that is a big problem.

As I am working on "trouble-shooting" many years, compatibility is the toughest issue we have to face, sometimes, no solution could be find until you change or upgrade your operating system.

2.  Degrees is equal to "high-qualified man"?

Answer is No. Degrees can only mean you have special knowledge in a specific field, it also means you have spent too much time on a specific field, then you have taken less time on your behavior system , you could be naive in the society, act oddly, bizar.

The solution is spending part of your time on history or some books like LunYu, mature your judgement system.

3. What shall we learn from this Information-decided  society?

(1) you should have one extendable, reliable, expandable operating system in your mind to control your behavior.

(2) your system should have the ability to access different people with different behivor system -----in one word  : compatibility.

(3) Round-robin timesharing  with your friends and colleagus should be one feature of your system. ----- means you should spend time with your loves.

(4) convergence time and hardened software should be considered of  the key performance of your system.

4. more human character factor analyzing in future .....

2dian

Post by 古风·墨梅
[QUOTE=nightcatmtl](zt)你ＴＭＤ欠揍——移民后我们夫妻竟然变成了死对头(zt)

你以为只是男人惨吗？女人也一样。当初没嫌他家贫，同甘同苦一起走过来，终于在国内买了房，办了移民，独自在这边拿身份，可身份没拿到，等来一张离婚书。青春已经过去，上了三十还要重新独自面对生活，一切从头开始。。好女人又会有什么好下场？何况生育的好年龄眼看就要过去，下一次婚姻还不知在哪，有时感觉生活都没什么意义，可又能怎么办呢？。。所以，好男人有，好女人也有，关键是两人的价值观、责任感要相当，互相要有一份感恩的心，要不只会是一种伤害。。

共苦不同甘

金圣叹

好女人不是婚姻失败的原因。得到幸福不是必然的，失去幸福也不是偶然的，要真正找到问题所在才能解决问题。如果说做好女人就是婚姻失败的原因，那么做坏女人就家庭美满啰？

其实，归根到底，只要好女人才会得到上品男人的珍惜。好好UPGRADE自己，找一个珍惜你的男人，就这么简单而已。

至于说放任和作贱，想必没人可以比得过木子美了－－男人身上过，佛祖心中留，桌子、门窗四壁乃至祖宗牌位，想必都兽迹斑斑。。付出了这么多，可连残疾人、白痴儿都不爱她。。。如果她也叫幸福，世界上就没有什么不幸福的了。

Post by 古风·墨梅
[QUOTE=nightcatmtl](zt)你ＴＭＤ欠揍——移民后我们夫妻竟然变成了死对头(zt)

你以为只是男人惨吗？女人也一样。当初没嫌他家贫，同甘同苦一起走过来，终于在国内买了房，办了移民，独自在这边拿身份，可身份没拿到，等来一张离婚书。青春已经过去，上了三十还要重新独自面对生活，一切从头开始。。好女人又会有什么好下场？何况生育的好年龄眼看就要过去，下一次婚姻还不知在哪，有时感觉生活都没什么意义，可又能怎么办呢？。。所以，好男人有，好女人也有，关键是两人的价值观、责任感要相当，互相要有一份感恩的心，要不只会是一种伤害。。

abellove_yang

哥们，凭你的条件，换一个吧！长痛不如短痛，就算为了你的孩子好，有这样的妈，孩子以后能好吗？

mrhephd@163.

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2dian

旧的不去,新的不来.

nishimadaha

女人和男人中都有精品也有**，这是现实，因为是人类所以会有犯错。可以理解你的愤怒和辛酸但也想为你太太说几句，因为我常做调解工作我希望站在客观的理性的位置。

一个女人如果为你生了孩子她一定是爱你，保持女人对你的爱是缘分加学问。你一定是个老实人不会甜言蜜语，而你太太又是爱面子和攀比的人，丈母娘只是个导火索。夫妻是一种二人之间的协调出国会使这种关系倾斜，只有靠你们自己，建议冷静冷静，打骂也是正常的不要往心里去，爱之深恨之深。有了孩子还是珍惜这种缘分，因为你们的生命都因她在延续。如果你太太有好朋友你可以让他帮你劝劝，国外做男人不容易适当的时机发火一下可能是好事，让女人明白你是雄性。聪明的办法是发过火后别忘了找个时机道歉，毕竟日子还得过。祝好。