chunlisn

朋友，要积极得面对生活。:wink:

2dian

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绿野蓝山

对酒当歌，人生几何？
譬如朝露，去日苦多。
失望了悲观了后悔了颓废了，一个男人就会甘心沉湎在无尽的妄自菲薄中吗？
人生如旅，挫折无限而风光也无限，失去很多而收获也很多.
抱最大的希望，做最大的努力，别去想最坏的打算.

alven

Don't think in this way. You are hurting yourself and other people. All the immigrants when they begin to live in this city, they have to face with the same problem--a totally strange society. In this sense, they will make lots of efforts to adapt to this new environment. --For us, this could be a tremendous difficulty-one thing is the fact of most of us come here with no language compare with other country's immigrants who can speak fluent E or F. another thing is that even we learn hardly, we can not get faster than the others, because Chinese has a much far distance than other language to French. The third thing is when we come here, we are truly had missed the best time to learn language, and we have no so much time to learn, we have to take care of family.  
    We don't desire to be as good as those very successful people, it is not reality. But for most of us, try to speak some E or F will make you feel easier to live a life here--I promise you won't feel regret to try those ways if you can. But my reminding--if you always reject the new language--don't speak E or F, just speak C, of course you feel no way to closer yourself to this city's life.  
    Don't think you are a Chinese, don't think the different between you and other nation's people like Africans, Europeens,  South  Americans or  Indians,  you are the same with them, you are a montrealer now, and actually it is, yes, even they can speak both languages very well, and more even, many local people they do the same jobs with you, earn the same salary--that's to say, not only you earn the lowest payment--not only you. What do you feel about that?  
    Don't look down your nose at those Chinese people who try to become or pretend to become middle-class or main-stream, they trek their climbing up, with efforts, you can say nothing wrong with them, in this sense. If you view them as nothing, you will be a negative--you are much less than them.
    Feel easy to them, and feel easy to yourself. If you really feel uneasy to live here, choose another province, or back to China. It's not so bad by choosing changes. Yes, you've lost some of your time, but you're trying to do the best from it.
   

Alven
30/11/08

niya0310

写的真好，顶一下。。。

虽然来montreal的时间不长，但是也茫然过，不知道为何来到这里，所有的努力只是为了那一张纸

等到真的得到了，却又会开始茫然，如何开始，如何继续下去

urara

杂种生命力都很强的。加油吧

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强贴留名

Dough

我是流氓，我怕谁。

gege

既然你那么难受，为什么不回去呢？

我觉得回中国了我才更茫然，满街都是压力很大的民工，社会阶层差异从外表就一览无余，让人痛心，拥挤，污染和信任危机让人压力特别大。。没觉得自己在这里是外人的感觉那么强烈

whynottoday

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