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Child First!
Post by 魔法门;2637774
5 [- m1 ?, u: D0 K/ A# L9 S 这种情况 法院不会多虑女方的, 因为她是错误方. 坚持要, 会得到孩子抚养权的. 共同财产可能平分.
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. ]5 V- X7 J+ wTheir Child will be firstly taken into consideration, not the one who is right. To be "wrong" or "right" is not the base for judgement in conjugal fights. The "wrong" side will not be punished either, because the court is there to protect the child, not judge who is right and who is wrong. The one side who cheated turns off the grace, but it is not necessarily that she is wrong from the basic meaning of a marriage that she understands. She is not so gracious by the cliche way of expression of her discontentment towards her marriage, only because she is an ignorant, not knowing the negative psychological consequences on the husband, child and herself, and she is confused and a coward as well. She just got herself into possibly a more confusing situation, and thus she is stuck in guilt, pressure and fear! ) }& ]$ v0 g% I2 U. X
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I believe the husband is as confused as herself, yet with more pressure and fear. I believe that both sides need to grow on many things, and I suggest them to concentrate on their child's benefit, laying aside the things they are not clear about and putting the divorce on hold till they feel sure.
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- B, D; ] [# i6 y- e2 b# {They can reach an agreement on the finance to keep things going for the benefit of their child first.9 Z4 _# u! w: A' k H
, i. T. G& A9 B. xAs the court is concerned, it only and CAN only care about the child first, and everything else will be done on an advanced no-fault judgement base.: }3 w( Q: b a5 B$ [$ D
6 `+ i1 Q u6 R- |/ H: `Just for your reference, who will benefit from the fault-finding judgement on divorce cases? The lawyers! (They are against this no-fault system) Not only we create more possibilities for trouble for divorce, but also the lawyers get rich! Giving more money out for more trouble? Only stupid people do that! So stop fighting and learn to solve your problems in a good and nice way, for you, your inglorious wife and first of all, for truly the sake of your child! |
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