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Post by share;2724645
常言道:病从口入。
有些孩子得病是因照顾不周,误食食物,或外感伤寒导致。但是目前,因父母伦常道未尽圆满导致孩子生病的情况越来越多。
昨日去儿童医院,人满为患!见抱孩子治病的父母们忧心忡忡,可怜天下父母心!但是我们做父母的忽略了一点,孩子生病让我们忧心,我们是否也曾让自己的父母公婆烦恼?
孩子的病是怎样得的?
小孩子得病,一般12岁以内的(个别情况下会到很老),因其自己本身不发脾气作恶,所以多因家长发脾气导致,原因见明得讲病。(dbtang.com)
一般女孩子得病是因为孩子的母亲或父亲对各自亲生父母发脾气,男孩是因为孩子的父母对非血缘关系的父母发脾气,如母亲对其公婆,父亲对其岳父母发脾气。孩子的父母过分溺爱孩子,导致把本应该孝敬老人的爱转移到孩子身上,那作为子女不孝顺的罪,也要由孩子来代受。
所以,奉劝小孩子的家长们,要尽好孝道,多关心、孝敬老人,引领一家的好风气,这样,你们的孩子将来就会学你们孝敬你们,否则,孩子不仅仅生病,还要不孝敬你们,你们怎么不孝敬你们的老人,孩子就怎么不孝敬你们,天理循环,一报还一报。
http://www.ngotcm.com/forum/thread-108869-1-1.html
I think if your children get sick, it has nothing to do with your own parents or parents in law. If they get sick, sometimes normal, everyone gets sick; perhaps, getting sick can increase your body immune system, so it can prevent getting sicker next time. (eg, flu). Treating the parents well, and respecting them. it's what we should do. It's a moral issue!
If it happens to what you post, how do you explain to those people, who do not treat well their parents/in-laws, and their children do not get sick? |
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