I really find out it is very fifficult for me to meet friends of gay, my post "comment on gay" may have been disgarded! I think it not strange. Chinese people is in small number, let alone gays in it, further some of them prefer foreigner, still some are worried about the fate of standing out. Though there is an atmasphere in which gay should not have been so constraint as we are in China, above all we are by all means chinese.
I make out these reasons to pursuave myself stop doing so. but I am waiting for friends.
Above is only my personal view, forget it if you do not agree. wish all of you good. |