Good men exist anywhere, anytime. The things are:
1. How they are defined, by what criteria.
2. How you can identify them, based on your capability.
3. How you are able to keep them by ensuring yourself and them pleasure.
Be realistic, good men are not good at everything, neither good all the time. Developing bad men into good ones are tough. Unfortunately easy on the contrary. Counting more on yourself might be the best wayout though.
Sorry it is probably not my business, or I might be wrong.
But your ("playboyca") comments to SOPHIE08 are bit rough, what do you think? In a civilised world, I think, there is no one bad-mounthing other people.
An encounter, no matter how ugly or stupid she is, with a lady, is a blessing.