hpo

if u look for a western as a boyfriend, i think probably several t=years late, he will find a new one. you ugly women.

grammar

djkkii: Don't be too narrow. How much percentage by ur meaning of "probably"?
Well, will u say a chinese guy 100% won't look for someone else after he has gf or wife? I've read so many posts of looking for "one night stay" or "sex partner" on this BBS. Some of them even are married. Who can trust a guy just because he is Chinese?

ppllyy

看了这些帖子,忍不住想说上两句!但又不知从何说起!总之,愿所有的中国人,无论是男是女,都能在异国它乡心想事成!

胆小

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理解理解！找西人就去找西人好了，那是你的自由，没人会拦着你，但没必要将中国男人都贬得一无是处吧。大过年的，你就不要没事儿找抽啦。
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胆小

也有道理，君不见大陆的治疗阳痿早泄小广告至少有十亿张......

kylin

你自己运气不好不要怪中国男人，但愿你找到称心如意的外国人！
不是所有中国男人都是象你说的那样，以后请你说话知道尊重别人，也尊重自己的祖先！

jjh

对找西人（男人或女人）伴侣想发表如下看法：
在这边的大陆移民，一般都还是把中国认定为首选对象的。不像在国内，认为洋人就比国人强。
但是这边的华人再多，其圈子还是小了些，选择面很有限。而且年龄的分配也不对，比如我注意到中国人的圈子中20-30岁的男性单身要大大多于女性，而30-40岁单身的女性要多于男性。年轻气盛的男同胞都抱怨找不到对象。而年龄大一些的单身女性（尤其是单亲母亲）也很难找到合适的人选。其中有经济因素的问题，也有一些传统观念问题。
我想大家既然都已经移民了到了一个新国家，就因该融入这个社会。对找西人伴侣的男女同胞都应多给些理解和支持。不能那么狭隘的看问题。
话又说回来，对于那些找了西人伴侣的男女同胞们，希望你们一定要很自信地、平等地与他们相处。不要委曲自己。不要用中国人的忍让、求全的美德把他们惯坏了。

ChinaStory

Agree with JJH. My finding so far is, on average Chinese new male immigrants share far broader general knowledge than those locals in here. Many of them are pretty outstanding in business or career dev as long as language is not a concern. In general, immigrants are doing greater, like those Jewish, Italians and many of Indians, even Arabians. A good example is Mr. Robert Abudulla, just recruited as the manager of city Montreal from his Hydroquebec capacity out of tens of candidates.
To some Chinese ladies ---
I agree many locals are pretty competitive too.  A lot of pretty smart Chinese ladies just turned into rush engagement with local people who are unfortunately far below average in terms of social capacity and finance. Really jealous ?

ChinaStory

Agree with JJH. My finding so far is, on average Chinese new male immigrants share far broader general knowledge than those locals in here. Many of them are pretty outstanding in business or career dev as long as language is not a concern. In general, immigrants are doing greater, like those Jewish, Italians and many of Indians, even Arabians. A good example is Mr. Robert Abudulla, just recruited as the manager of city Montreal from his Hydroquebec capacity out of tens of candidates.
To some Chinese ladies ---
I agree many locals are pretty competitive too.  A lot of pretty smart Chinese ladies just turned into rush engagement with local people who are unfortunately far below average in terms of social capacity and financial position. Really jealous ?

tmd 4

ChinaStory: I agree in general Chinese male immigrants have broader knowledge (mostly of asia). However, sometimes knowledge is not more acctractive than fine food to our girls, especially when your guys talk of politics and other nonsense.

It's not strange that immigrants are more outstanding, since they are selected to come to canada. Local people can get the passport just because they were born in here.