beaugarcon

Hi,Girl,

Dont tell him everything include the abortion operation.
Following the instruction below, you  dont have to worry about nothing:


1. It is not easy to find your true love in this world,so keep it going well. It is dangerous to tell him the details about your ex-bf and that abortion.Probably,this will end your love.

When he comes to know everything about your past include your ex-bf and your abortion,he will not ask you more details and he will keep it unknown,being silent of this event,if he really loves you!!

If he doesn't know the abortion,dont tell him this,and better he will never know it. When he try to know more about your past love (because he will know you are not a virgin,maybe he wants to find something), you can answer him:" I had a bf,but we broke up many years ago,that really hurted me very bad, Can I keep it secret?" Then, a smart husband will stoping inquiring deeply into it.

2. When he doesn't love you, he will show you all the worse evidence to prove that your marriage is reaching to the end. Since he has already lost interest on you, it is not necessary to explain too much to him. Devoice is inescapable.

3.  You have made a serious mistake,please, dont repeat it again!

4.  Keeping on a warm family is not easy. Learn it more from those harmonious couples!

Anytime, you get into trouble about this, Email me:Beaugarcon008@hotmail.com
I will try my best to provide you the best solutions!

WANGYUN6677

"不见不散"里有句话,很好用,----"打死我也不说!"
男人是这个世界上最贱的动物,只要你嘴硬,男人肯定没折!
坦白从宽,新疆搬砖;抗拒从严,回家过年!
一步走差,由如海豚撞岩石,找死!

John Horny

Post by WANGYUN6677
"不见不散"里有句话,很好用,----"打死我也不说!"

是"甲方乙方".好梦一日游.

Smokers2004

Post by netsino
看来大家都支持说谎。这里的谎言可不是什么善意的谎言，应该是不得已的的谎言。既然已经发生了，那么自己就不得不去承认这个代价。


坦白从宽,新疆搬砖;
抗拒从严,回家过年!

严格意义上说，也不叫撒谎。

首先你主动说，我以前有过男朋友，他说知道了。你没撒谎。
然后他不会主动问你是不是做了人流，你也不主动说。你也没撒谎

坦白从宽,新疆搬砖;
抗拒从严,回家过年!

漂亮宝贝

打死我也不说!"

坦白从宽,新疆搬砖;抗拒从严,回家过年!

这可是男士们的绝对经典经验结论,女士们也不妨一用.


希望他是个善解人意的男人, 祝你幸福!

wkk4002

坚决不能说，说了的话你会非常后悔，非常痛苦，就算你们在一起，一生都会有阴影。而且你也不要想太多，要相信生活不会对你那么残酷，要相信好人一定会有好报，题外话了，虽然我们不一定相信上帝，相信神仙，但一定要相信一些能使这个世界，自己的生活美好的东西。

胖妹妹

说了就别结婚了。女人要有自己的隐私，且，你自己的痛苦自己承担，为什么要难为那个要娶你的男人呢？

大毛

我觉得大家最好不要给什么建议，如果是男人，不如假想自己就是那个楼主的未婚夫，以个人的情况来设想将来发生在2人之间事情，因为把握别人是可靠性最差的。然后大家说一下，就得出来客观的数学统计，这样才是有参考价值的。

楼主的内心不安，也是自己应该承受的，不能说难听的话，如活该，但不少人往往对过去没有作好的事情，感觉都是最难受的，无论是生活还是工作还有别的什么的，这是事实。

设想如果自己的未婚夫是个处子，他就期望自己的老婆是个处女，这过分份么，我觉得不过份；
当然如果本身不是处子了，还要求别人是处女，这就太王八蛋了

大毛

Post by 胖妹妹
说了就别结婚了。女人要有自己的隐私，且，你自己的痛苦自己承担，为什么要难为那个要娶你的男人呢？

这是隐瞒不了得，首先不是处女了，而且楼主说了，要是再怀孕，到医生那里检查，不说实话，出了医疗事故，医生是可以不负责任的，到那个时候问题就大了，因为孩子是2个人的骨肉，你岂能用你过去和自己丈夫不相干的经历来对这个孩子冒无辜的风险，那你就是毁了2个人，你丈夫，和孩子。

婚前直接说了吧，否则结婚后麻烦大了，不如让麻烦婚前解决。

如果他在意，你隐瞒了，你这个人也太自私了。

By The Way，我感觉楼主最关键的是在意未婚夫的处女情节吧

VENUS

Ask yourself who u are and what u really want (tell/not to tell, forget about "him" for now).  There are logic for either answer, make your decision and stick to it.

I've never have abortion but heard that those who did suffered (pyschologically) tremedously for their whole life.  I feel sorry for your unfortunate experience.

If it helps: - I am 45, not beautiful just ordinary looking, open and honest personality, have a good boyfriend for 10 years.  Not married, just because I am not interested in that piece of paper.  If it were me, I would definately tell him! If he does not say something possitive within 10 seconds, he doesn't love me.  (if I ever have any problem or issue, my boyfriend will be there for me, vica versa) If he ever show any sign of "doubt" or "unhappiness" about the issue, even for 1 second, I will dump him right away.  Be yourself, have confidence about yourself!!

27 years ago, someone told me that "U can't love someone if u don't love yourself".  At last I've learn it, took a long time.

In case anyone feel negative about me/what I say :- there is a long line up of male for me, Chinese and Canadian, I don't have any problem.

Whatever will be your decision, I'll support u.  Have a happy life!!!