标题: 妈妈，我爱你 [打印本页] 作者: TIAN TIAN 时间: 2002-4-6 00:17 标题: 妈妈，我爱你 妈妈去世一年了，我还是不相信这个事实，我梦想着有一天我再回到妈妈身旁。妈妈，我好爱好爱你，你知道吗？作者: Matrix 时间: 2002-4-7 03:01
I feel the same way. Sometimes I still feel I could make a phone call to my father as long as I picked up the phone. He's always not only on my mind but also right beside me to bless and protect me. I talk to him often in my dreams. It's been 4 months and I still can't face the reality. I am a man and optimist, but really vulnerable when it comes to losing your love one...Who can turn back the clock, I still have lots of words to share with my father who is always proud of every little progress I made... :cool:作者: Frank9007 时间: 2002-4-7 09:59
我又想吸烟了， :mad: 。
我爱我妈妈，我也爱我爸爸。作者: yy156 时间: 2002-4-10 15:36
the more i get older, the more i miss my parents, they are the only persons in the world who don't expect the return from you.作者: yy156 时间: 2002-4-10 15:37
what they expect is your happness, my dear parents!作者: dandan 时间: 2002-4-13 20:41
从来没有对父母说过爱这个字，虽然那是不争的事实，可是在远离父母的蒙城，最想和他们说的就是“我爱您们”也试着在电话里说出来可是很生硬，所以在每封信的结尾都写满爱字。作者: Matrix 时间: 2002-4-14 02:35
dandan, I really envy you... :cool:作者: louis53188 时间: 2002-4-14 06:29
光看这标题就让人心里充满爱.我是即将来蒙城的新移民,现在我要多抽点时间和妈妈在一起,唉!我现在连妈妈的生日都记不清楚了,真是......作者: TIAN TIAN 时间: 2002-4-16 15:31
谁可以告诉我怎么可以不再忧伤？谁可以告诉我怎样可以回到从前？作者: hjl2001 时间: 2002-4-16 18:31
他乡游子，有多少遗憾无奈惆怅。
故园亲情，含无数回忆追思神往。作者: Matrix 时间: 2002-4-16 22:07
TianTian, try to "shu(4) li(4) zheng(4) que(4) de ren(2) sheng(1) guan(1) and ren(2) si(3) guan(1)",that's what I learned this time, and ren(2) si(3) guan(1) is very important for me to recover.
Am I right? :cool:作者: TIAN TIAN 时间: 2002-4-17 20:22
Martrix:
Thanks for your advice. I saw my mother in my dream yesterday night.I hope I can accompany her everyday.作者: Matrix 时间: 2002-4-18 01:35
What a coincidence! Believe me or not, I dreamed about my father in our former apartment last nite
and he's on the balcony serving the flowers and birds----he always tried to be a handyman but frankly we all didn't think so, hehe...And then my elder brother and me said hello to him, he took a look at us and faded away after several seconds. Then I asked my brother why we could still saw father though he had already passed away. It's a simple way to understand "ren(2) si(3) guan(1)"----When I tidied up father's tools box, it seemed to me that yesterday this moment my father was still holding the scissors to trim those flowers but now he had changed into bone ashes staying in ge(2) ming(4) lie(4) shi(4) gong(1) mu(4)----he left suddenly not even leaving a single word to us......I am not that vulneralbe that can't afford the old passing away, but it's supposed to be like all the children surrounding him and he finished the last words to us and left peacefully...I don't even have a chance to take care of him but run away here in Canada. As a traditional Chinese father, he sometimes kept the distance between father and son, but I knew he loves me very very much and is always proud of me even I am still nothing here...I have ever asked a stupid question to my brother:" It would be great if I could still communicate to father even if he had passed away, wouldn't it?"
Sincerely wish all the fathers and mothers healthy and long-lived!!! 作者: TIAN TIAN 时间: 2002-4-20 14:34
To Matrix :
Thanks for your reply.
Do you believe in God? Do you know where we are going after death?Can you tell me something about ur ideas? anyhow ,all the best to you.作者: Matrix 时间: 2002-4-21 02:09
Tiantian, I have no religions up to now but personally I prefer materialism than idealism. You know, I had been expecting the miracle but when I watched my father's coffin being pulled into the fire and burnt for almost 2 hours, from that moment, I realized there will be no miracle at all. And fortunately or unfortunately, death is part of our life and we all will follow this way without exceptions. I used to be a naughty "boy" in the family but since this sudden event I felt myself getting older and older----in another word, mature.
As a matter of fact, religions really can make you feel better somehow, But when I saw the burning fire I definitely believe that God can't help.
Life is really vulnerable and I am really sorry for the four Canadian soldiers who sacrificed not in a battle but due to friendly fire! They were just doing the exercise in the morning and suddenly being bombed to die.
Feeling the earthquake this morning makes me thinking----Life is really vulnerable! We have to experience lots of life-and-death moments through out our whole lives, there is really no need to think about death too much because who knows what's gonna happen, my friend, you just relax and enjoy your everyday----This is what life is! :cool:作者: newlinx 时间: 2002-4-21 03:52
C:\My Documents\mali\theboy_theappletree.jpg作者: newlinx 时间: 2002-4-21 04:05 作者: newlinx 时间: 2002-4-21 04:11 作者: TIAN TIAN 时间: 2002-4-21 12:04
Matrix :Reading your article, my eyes glistened with tears as i struggled to control my emotions.I has changed a lot since my dear mother died. I cannot really feel happy and easy,because I miss my mother painfully.(soory, my English is limitted, I wish I can learn from you more, I have to handle my assignment:1000-word composition first in English)Thanks for your kindness. frown作者: Matrix 时间: 2002-4-21 22:36
Tiantian, I was flattered, where where! See how poor my English is when I was flattered, haha, try to ask Wang8 for that.
Anyway, really hope both of us can cheer up as soon as possible. Try to be with and talk to your friends around and don't leave yourself alone recently if you still feel painful. Email me if you wanna share your feeling with me.
newlinx, what are you gonna do down there??? :confused:作者: Matrix 时间: 2002-4-22 03:28
Newlinx, please refer to https://www.sinoquebec.com/cgi-bin/ubb-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=15;t=000150
I guess you were trying to post a picture here. 作者: newlinx 时间: 2002-4-23 00:11
Thanks, Matrix. I did it that way. I don't know why I can see it from my pc sometimes, but not always. Just try again in MSN this time. 作者: newlinx 时间: 2002-4-23 00:21
Oh, this is not good, too small to see it. Sorry for my bothering, could anyone in charge of this board remove my messages?作者: newlinx 时间: 2002-4-23 00:23 作者: TIAN TIAN 时间: 2002-4-23 11:47
newlinx
thanks.//I agree with you to some extent. Illness pursued my mother till her death, which made me bitterly painful.But she still didn't want to say -stay with me , don't go away. I feel heart pain for my staying away from my mother.作者: 晴晴 时间: 2002-4-30 12:05
tian tian , thank you very much.at least, you write something on here to remember your mother.my mother has gone for one year,but i always avoid to talk this topic in order to avoid pain-feeling.i always regret that i did not do something for her.until now , when i want to do something for her, it is too late to do so.
the only thing left for me is regreting....作者: Frank9007 时间: 2002-4-30 20:11
cccc : actually, I am in the abyss of sorrow , not only because my mother and I are close, but also because I paid too little attention to my mother during her illness.I regret about it.
I only wish all the daughters can take care of their mother without regretting, I only wish one day I can go together with her,just like in my dream, I can cover quilt for my mother in the night.作者: Matrix 时间: 2002-4-30 23:00
I must take my mother here next summer no matter what!!! She refused to come for fear of affecting my study and said to me that she will not come until I finish my study. But I have made up my mind now----I don't care what it will cost me, I will just do it----invite her to spend the summer and fall here every year( well, the winter here is really not good for old-aged people and even for us, see the weather these days!?) 作者: Frank9007 时间: 2002-4-30 23:25
Matrix :
I had seen many posts of you, I had the idea only just now, after watching what you had written,-----you are a good boy .If I were you, I should pick my mother stay with me as soon as possible.作者: 晴晴 时间: 2002-5-6 22:57
Frank9007,I think you can match all these things.But i have no chances,because my mother has gone.She always love me,even though sometimes, i was angry or complained to her....She only knew one thing---i was always her daughter.But she will never give me a chance to compliment my regreting for her.She has gone with laugh even she could not see me ,because she know that i was studing in Canada.She only wanted me to be a great person,but she did not know that she has not give me a chance to even accompany with her作者: tormon 时间: 2002-5-7 16:48
This is one of the reasons why I want to go back to China. My parents are old and could not fly too far to Canada because of illness. I travled back to China every year but I still feel it is not enough. the longer time I stay here, the stronger homesick.作者: goodnews2000 时间: 2002-5-8 22:30
流着眼泪把贴子看完!
母亲去世有四个月了. 记得去年圣诞节前,我回到了病危的母亲身边.看着母亲满头的白发,我的心快碎了! 我和我母亲都是基度徒,面对死亡,母亲没有恐惧,因为她知道她要去的是一个更美好的家园: 那里没有痛苦,没有烦劳. 感谢GOD! 他帮我们走过死荫的幽谷和亲人之间的生死离别!
现在每当想起母亲,我心中没有痛苦,只有对她的深深思念!我的脑海里经常浮现出一个清晰的形象: 她面带着属天的微笑.我内心充满了安慰! 因为我深知: 终会有一天, 我和母亲会再相见!作者: Cocoz 时间: 2002-5-9 00:09
specially for you, my dear MOM!http://www.jjsbooks.com/books/images/ROSE.GIF作者: Cocoz 时间: 2002-5-9 00:16
try again! 作者: TIAN TIAN 时间: 2002-5-9 00:33
Special for my dear mother http://salala.joyo.com/4th/xz/100/C0417002.jpg作者: TIAN TIAN 时间: 2002-5-9 10:09 作者: TIAN TIAN 时间: 2002-5-11 20:44
I wish mothers,all over the world ,happiness and good health.作者: Sailor 时间: 2002-5-12 06:42
thank u tian tian
