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作者: luckyangel    时间: 2007-7-24 10:30
标题: 找个自己喜欢的人就那么难吗?
想找个爱我和我爱的人就那么难吗?
作者: 圆明园    时间: 2007-7-24 10:42
i guess today is our lucky day.
1. you found me.
2. let's fall in love with each other
作者: sinochu4ba    时间: 2007-7-24 11:01
标题: cool
I agree with you that finding Mr. Right is very difficult. In order to find the right one, you have better to meet with more people. Besides, you better to improve yourself; so when the Mr. Right shows up, you won't miss it.;)
作者: meiguise    时间: 2007-7-24 12:29
标题: 同感
就是这么难
作者: blackshade2002    时间: 2007-7-24 13:33
It could be the most difficult thing, somehow, could be the easiest thing. It does really depend on persons.

You have to remember "Nothing" could be possiblly gained with your entire devoting, but, "Nothing" will be 100% resulted with your giving up.
作者: christmas111    时间: 2007-7-24 13:44
Post by luckyangel
想找个爱我和我爱的人就那么难吗?

从现实的角度来说,世界上不一定存在一个“爱我和我爱的人”。认为Mr. Right必定存在的,还是小说看多了,或者自己骗自己骗到相信了。

当然面包可能还是有的,多出去找找,期望值表太高就是了...

顺便力推一下我的偶像园园,最近处于中年活跃期,是入手的好时机。
作者: zhongguoren8    时间: 2007-7-24 13:52
不难,只是没到时候,要有耐心.
作者: 快乐溪流    时间: 2007-7-24 14:21
找一个喜欢你的比较容易。

如果你不挑剔,找一个你喜欢的也不难。

难就难在两情相悦。

Post by luckyangel
想找个爱我和我爱的人就那么难吗?

作者: 圆明园    时间: 2007-7-24 14:44
我们的口号是:
看ALLFOLLOWME的贴
听christmas111的话
做圆明园的好朋友.

我觉得,态度端正,方法得体,应该不难.
1. 多见面, 多应征.  老待家里, 只能认识送外卖的, 一般来说, 送外卖的比较忙, 没功夫跟你说话.
2. 学习喜欢人. 喜欢PLAYBOY很容易, 喜欢蒙德里安,喜欢马提斯就不是凭直觉就够了的. 所以, 得把喜欢当成一个能力来培养.
3. 嫌前两条不好, 听chrismas111的一句话: 找圆明园去!!! 简单易行, 安全可靠. 100% 让你满意, 不好的话, 退钱退货随你, 没二话.
作者: 屁仙    时间: 2007-7-24 18:55
Post by 圆明园
我们的口号是:
看ALLFOLLOWME的贴
听christmas111的话
做圆明园的好朋友.

俺看3P那只小肥羊:rolleyes:
作者: laogui    时间: 2007-7-26 12:40
Post by luckyangel
想找个爱我和我爱的人就那么难吗?
这是缘分的问题,着急也没用。
多多去一些社交场所,多多认识一些人,机会总还是有的~不要总憋在家里哟
作者: 无事生非    时间: 2007-7-28 04:13
Post by 圆明园
我们的口号是:
看ALLFOLLOWME的贴
听christmas111的话
做圆明园的好朋友.

我觉得,态度端正,方法得体,应该不难.
1. 多见面, 多应征. 老待家里, 只能认识送外卖的, 一般来说, 送外卖的比较忙, 没功夫跟你说话.
2. 学习喜欢人. 喜欢PLAYBOY很容易, 喜欢蒙德里安,喜欢马提斯就不是凭直觉就够了的. 所以, 得把喜欢当成一个能力来培养.
3. 嫌前两条不好, 听chrismas111的一句话: 找圆明园去!!! 简单易行, 安全可靠. 100% 让你满意, 不好的话, 退钱退货随你, 没二话.
听着好像有些话太高深了。
作者: X-Ray    时间: 2007-7-29 11:39
Post by jasmine2
找自己喜欢又喜欢自己的人是比较难, 虽然难, 却不是不可能.
在我们年轻的时候, 因为心思比较单纯,青春也正美好,彼此都喜欢的事情发生的并不少.
问题是,两情相悦一时容易,长久难.
随着岁月的流逝, 人们逐渐成熟与定型, 对人对事考虑得就多了, 找一个彼此喜欢的人就更难了.
我们都是不完美的人,婚姻爱情也比不完美, 这就是生活.
然而, 可贵的是, 知其难却为之, 宁信其有, 不信其无.
我相信,人以类聚, 一个内心真诚美好的人, 所要寻找的一定也是这样的人.
我为他们祝福祈祷!

随着年龄增长,在选择的时候会更慎重,考虑更全面,当然也就意味着选择的过程越长。不像年轻的时候,激情四射,不顾后果。

当然每个人的感受是不一样的,所以时刻准备着----拥抱爱情,抑或送别爱情。
作者: TBOX2005    时间: 2007-7-29 12:47
看样子,楼主并不需要答案,只是感叹一下而已。

唉------ !  就这样;)
作者: spotcat    时间: 2007-7-30 23:02
标题: 难!难于上青天!
当然也别忘了生活仍然美好,希望永远存在!
作者: bravo2007    时间: 2007-7-31 19:49
标题: 同感
男人为了家人以后安定生活,每天都在不停奋斗,那有时间去交友啊!!!
没有时间去社交,又怎么能认识和自己相情相亲的知己呢?
所以认命吧!!!
作者: so beautiful    时间: 2007-8-1 01:10
标题: 我认为比较难。
有才华的长得丑,长得帅的挣钱少;挣钱多的不顾家,顾了家的没出息;有出息的不浪漫,会浪漫的靠不住,靠得住的又窝囊——找个好男人真难!!:frown:
作者: TBOX2005    时间: 2007-8-1 12:13
Post by pear-land
你想找什么样的?........... 人要知足. 找个基本如意的配偶并不难 如果贪婪得什么都想要. 就是难.;). 你对男士要求那么高, 谁还赶恭维你哪?连毛主席也不敢.:confused:

她在心理上还处于追星的那个时候没成长出来。:wink: 不必担心,当她“长大”到了一定程度,她会发现,她要的是情感,还是那些情感的替代品。 但愿不要太迟了。


有人问:大师,为什么我们如此不会爱?

大师答:父母不知道爱是什么,因此孩子也就得到了影响。但是父母没有责任,因为他们也是受害者。就和你们一样是受害者,他们自己的父母也是一样,就这样类推---你能够推到亚当、夏娃和天父。

天父命令他们「做这个」,「不要做那个」、于是他们就开始了做所有父母做的一切无聊的事,「不要吃这棵树上的水果」,当亚当吃了那水果,天父便显出如此生气,他将亚当和夏娃逐出了乐园。

那个驱逐行动始终在那儿了,每个父母威胁要驱逐小孩,要将他扔出去,「如果你不听话,如果你行为不检点,你将被扔出去。」当然,一个小孩子便会害怕,扔出去!扔到这生命的荒野中!他便开始妥协,小孩子逐渐变成了一个扭曲的人,他开始控制了。他在不想笑的时候,如果母亲来了,他想喝牛奶,他就笑了。这就是政治,是政治手腕的起点,是政治手腕的ABC。在内心深处,他开始憎恨,因为他没有受到尊重。在内心深处,他开始感到挫折,因为他没有被爱。他被期望着去做某事,只有那样做他才会被爱,爱有某些条件,原本的他是没有价值的,首先他必须变得有价值,那样父母的爱才会有可能。这样他开始变得有价值,开始变得虚假..........人们以为只是当他们发现了一个有价值的人,他们才能够爱,胡说!你将永远不会找到一个那样的人,人们以为只要当他们找到一个完美的男人或一个完美的女人,他们才会爱,胡说!你将永远找不到他们、因为完美的女人和完美的男人是不存在的,如果他们存在的话,他们也不会在意你的爱,他们将不会对你的爱感兴趣
作者: christmas111    时间: 2007-8-1 17:12
Post by pear-land
你想找什么样的?........... 人要知足. 找个基本如意的配偶并不难 如果贪婪得什么都想要. 就是难.;). 你对男士要求那么高, 谁还赶恭维你哪?连毛主席也不敢.:confused:

什么是贪婪?什么都想要,是一种人生态度。当然为了负担这种人生态度,mm可能需要付出嫁不出去的代价。无对错,价值观不同而已。

中国人教育孩子要懂得知足。
美国人教育孩子要永不知足。

我看还是美国强点。

顺便说一下人家mm不过是开开玩笑,不必惊动毛主席。
作者: s030604    时间: 2007-8-1 20:47
标题: 经典!!!
Post by so beautiful
有才华的长得丑,长得帅的挣钱少;挣钱多的不顾家,顾了家的没出息;有出息的不浪漫,会浪漫的靠不住,靠得住的又窝囊——找个好男人真难!!:frown:

女人总是在抱怨,做男人也不容易啊。理解万岁!
作者: so beautiful    时间: 2007-8-1 20:56
标题: 呵呵...
楼下几位说的都有道理。谢谢讨论!
是的,我也就是开玩笑的,看你们这些优秀的男士们会怎么说。
我也没照着这个目的去找啊,本身我就不是完美的。;)
作者: luckyangel    时间: 2007-8-1 22:25
标题: 看来找个自己喜欢的人就是这么难啊!
想不到这么个话题就有那么大的反响,看来同病相连的人多着呐希望大家再继续顶贴!并祝大家都能找到自己喜欢的人!
作者: christmas111    时间: 2007-8-1 23:16
Post by luckyangel
想不到这么个话题就有那么大的反响,看来同病相连的人多着呐希望大家再继续顶贴!并祝大家都能找到自己喜欢的人!

no offence...but...
没觉得跟谁同病相怜,大多数人凑凑热闹而已。

偶尔无病呻吟发泄一下就好,很多次就无聊了。
作者: so beautiful    时间: 2007-8-2 10:11
标题: 哈哈!
Post by Oldstyle-
MM阅历不浅耶!新诺上就这么几种人,全让闺女给点名咧!这还怎么找婆家尼?
多亏这世上没有十全十美的男人,要不这新诺上的怎么办呀?:rolleyes:
我的缺点也多多,所以就在这几种男人里找了一位适合我的。到目前为止感觉还是不错的。情人眼里出西施吗:wink:
作者: 圆明园    时间: 2007-8-2 11:03
标题: 也可以这么说
Post by so beautiful
有才华的长得丑,长得帅的挣钱少;挣钱多的不顾家,顾了家的没出息;有出息的不浪漫,会浪漫的靠不住,靠得住的又窝囊——找个好男人真难!!:frown:
长得丑有才华,挣钱少长得美;不顾家挣钱多,没出息的能顾家;不浪漫的有出息,靠不住的会浪漫,窝囊的靠得住—— 闭着眼就能找着!!
作者: christmas111    时间: 2007-8-2 12:15
noticed the extra spaces in username?

i know u got a bunch of fans, including me...but even i am not as crazy, or dumb, as that one, yet.
作者: Timer    时间: 2007-8-2 14:36



Post by so beautiful
有才华的长得丑,长得帅的挣钱少;挣钱多的不顾家,顾了家的没出息;有出息的不浪漫,会浪漫的靠不住,靠得住的又窝囊——找个好男人真难!!:frown:

作者: 圆明园    时间: 2007-8-2 22:53
Post by christmas111
noticed the extra spaces in username?

i know u got a bunch of fans, including me...but even i am not as crazy, or dumb, as that one, yet.
老弟,最近老哥在征婚交友栏目弄得挺火, 我都有点不好意思, 眼神不好的人可能以为咱们自己炒做自己呢.
作者: mark1970    时间: 2007-8-3 07:18
MM又错了,他们是三胞胎...
Post by 拈花一笑.
是你们-兄弟俩:confused: :confused: :confused: :wink: :wink: :wink:

作者: longueuilkey    时间: 2007-8-3 22:46
本人有同感
作者: 无聊哈    时间: 2007-8-6 01:02
Post by 糖醋
再苍白无力哪怕是喃喃自语俺也要表明俺的观点:俺不是个看重外表的人,真的不是,真的不是真的不是。不是这个原因,真的不是,真的不是真的不是。。。。。。
男人敢做敢為.是就是.至少你是!
作者: 无聊哈    时间: 2007-8-7 00:05
Post by 糖醋
以前应该大概差不多不是,现在也许可能说不定不是,以后遇到再说搞不清是不是。


不要酱子嘛,给俺一点点隐私权好不?
你离君子劍也差得不遠了. 還要隱私權,虛僞
作者: OrientDoctor    时间: 2007-8-7 09:22
很多人都说要找一个"爱我"的人,爱"我"。。。问题是,你是否有反问一下自己,"我可爱吗?"神在创世之初为每一个人都准备了一个最适合他的人。然而,在人还没有准备好之前,神不会把那个人带到他的身边。所以,我们应该学习什么样的人是最"可爱"的,先努力让自己成为一个"可爱"的人,而不是去急切去寻找一个"爱我"的人。
作者: montrealpost    时间: 2007-8-7 10:22
标题: Completely disagree!
Post by OrientDoctor
很多人都说要找一个"爱我"的人,爱"我"。。。问题是,你是否有反问一下自己,"我可爱吗?"神在创世之初为每一个人都准备了一个最适合他的人。然而,在人还没有准备好之前,神不会把那个人带到他的身边。所以,我们应该学习什么样的人是最"可爱"的,先努力让自己成为一个"可爱"的人,而不是去急切去寻找一个"爱我"的人。

If he who cannot love me for who I am, not worth a second of my time!
作者: montrealpost    时间: 2007-8-7 10:25
标题: 好好爱自己!
Post by luckyangel
想找个爱我和我爱的人就那么难吗?
Post by 2008wahaha
找个自己爱的和同时爱自己的异性, 真的很难:frown:

不容易, 所以叫缘份!
准备?! 准备个P!
MMs呀, 找来干什么???  . . . . . 既使你能找到"他", 不一定是好事 . . . .  你找的是什么??? e.g. 找稳定, 逐去寂寞, . . . .

把自己的时间和精神 - 好好爱自己!
作者: OrientDoctor    时间: 2007-8-7 10:53
Post by montrealpost
If he who cannot love me for who I am, not worth a second of my time!
If who you are, is a mean, self-fish, self-center, careless, greedy,  cold blood fella, tell me,  girls or boys, who is going to love you.
作者: 圆明园    时间: 2007-8-7 11:09
Post by OrientDoctor
If who you are, is a mean, self-fish, self-center, careless, greedy,  cold blood fella, tell me,  girls or boys, who is going to love you.
God does.  HE always loves you.
作者: christmas111    时间: 2007-8-7 11:35
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                 If he who cannot love me for who I am, not worth a second of my time!
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- 这句话虽然说得有点霸道,但逻辑上一点错误都没有,所以绝对正确。
Post by OrientDoctor
If who you are, is a mean, self-fish, self-center, careless, greedy,  cold blood fella, tell me,  girls or boys, who is going to love you.

- 神有没有教你讲道理的时候不必加那么多奇怪的形容词?

大家应该学习我这种人的宽容,近2年来骂人的时候最侮辱性的词语就是“你是坏蛋”。
作者: montrealpost    时间: 2007-8-7 11:39
Post by OrientDoctor
If who you are, is a mean, self-fish, self-center, careless, greedy,  cold blood fella, tell me,  girls or boys, who is going to love you.

Too many, guess I've been lucky!  Else God loves me a lot!  Else, mEn only love mean, selfish . . . old ugly me.

I've nothing against religion, u can continue to insult your own God with your own words.

First one wanted to marry me at  . . . . my existing boyfriend has been with me XX years, 踢也不跑. Yes, he must be blind   .  Montreal 整街都是"single"男人, 有什么问题?
作者: montrealpost    时间: 2007-8-7 11:44
to christmas111:  我是不是有点点坏 or “我是坏蛋” ??      

p.s. 谁有空, 请帮助 . . . . "急!!!寻月底回广州的朋友帮我带儿子回去" @ https://www.sinoquebec.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=463632
作者: OrientDoctor    时间: 2007-8-7 16:27
Post by montrealpost
Too many, guess I've been lucky!  Else God loves me a lot!  Else, mEn only love mean, selfish . . . old ugly me.

I've nothing against religion, u can continue to insult your own God with your own words.

First one wanted to marry me at  . . . . my existing boyfriend has been with me XX years, 踢也不跑. Yes, he must be blind   .  Montreal 整街都是"single"男人, 有什么问题?

My Dear friend:

First of all, I want to apologize to you if somehow you feel I have insulted you. I didn't say that to you personally. If you notice the objective that I used which is "boys and girls", you should know that I say it to all people who can look at this thread.
Second, I don't know whether or not you are Christian. But I just want to make something clear. God loves sinners not sin. In other word, God loves you because of who you are, not because fo what you have. God loves you because you are a man created in his image, because you are his child and he is your father, he doeslove you not because you have a young and good looking face, health body, smart brain, high education and a lot of money. That's why a beggar and a king can come before him and pray to him. How can a father not love  all his children equally.  However, God doesn't love sin. He doesn't love greediness, self-fishness and pride because he is also righteous. And his love  doesn't contradict his righteousness. That's why he sends his one and only son Jesus to die for all mankinds and save whoever believes in his name from a position of sinner to a position of his discipline. Final judgement will come eventually though, for those who refuse to repent and follow Jesus and continue their sinful life.
Third, you are right on mentioning God also loves mean, self-fished, and greedy people as much as he loves the righteous ones. (By the way, I didn't mention old and urgry. If unfortunely, you have an old and urgry face yet a beautiful mind, I am sure you look so beautiful in my eyes as well. However vice versa, you won't be so attracting to me even you have a piece of good skin) In fact, only God can do so and through those believes in him. But what I was talking about is man's limited love which is based on too many conditions. One of those conditions is that we must receive love before we can give out love. Not to mention other conditions such as health, wealth, title, etc.(You will agree about me talking about men's love if you are a realistic person)
About the reason why there are so many single  in Montreal.  There are many reasons, but still I insisted that, even you get marry. But if that person is not chosen by God to you, you won't have a happy marriage, or your happiness in your marriage won't last"
作者: kuruma    时间: 2007-8-7 16:31
why only boyfriend for XX years if both are that excellent ?
Post by montrealpost
Too many, guess I've been lucky! Else God loves me a lot! Else, mEn only love mean, selfish . . . old ugly me.

I've nothing against religion, u can continue to insult your own God with your own words.

First one wanted to marry me at . . . . my existing boyfriend has been with me XX years, 踢也不跑. Yes, he must be blind . Montreal 整街都是"single"男人, 有什么问题?

作者: christmas111    时间: 2007-8-7 18:18
Post by kuruma
why only boyfriend for XX years if both are that excellent ?

why do you have such a question in the first place?

If you dont understand my question, lets put it this way:

how hard is it for some people to understand that to get married or not is simply a choice of lifestyle and not a responsibility for loved ones?

cheers. and pls begin to understand that people are different.

and yes, feel free to go ahead and marry the one you love. if you have already done so, then best wishes.
作者: 圆明园    时间: 2007-8-8 00:33
Post by OrientDoctor

About the reason why there are so many single  in Montreal.  There are many reasons, but still I insisted that, even you get marry. But if that person is not chosen by God to you, you won't have a happy marriage, or your happiness in your marriage won't last"
我大概看懂了, 是这个意思.

假如你要泡妞,
不要到别的地方泡,
酒吧的不可靠,
论坛的不好,
MSN的不可持续.

假如你要泡妞,
你一定到我们的教会来,
带着你虔诚的心,
洗干净你的手,
做上我的马车, 唱着歌儿来.
作者: montrealpost    时间: 2007-8-8 09:29
圆同学, 你很早阿!    不要戏弄OrientDoctor了, 他读圣经读坏了脑子。看你的"God does. HE always loves you.", 还是你了解多点。从后 你无法睡时, 找OrientDoctor教他圣经。:p

OrientDoctor, U didn't get me upset, don't worry!  U read the Bible too much without understanding it, 找圆同学研经去。人家的二个句子比您复制的半页好。
Nice day!
作者: 避风溏    时间: 2007-8-13 19:06
标题: 难--那是因为你没遇见我
遇见我就不难了

人见人爱,人爱人人难




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