不管如何, 我还是感谢您的好意和大度.作者: qinqinli 时间: 2003-10-18 22:41
我刚一个人移民到此。能否与你们同行？我性格开朗，喜欢小孩，大家一起会非常融洽的，顺便我也熟悉一下环境。好吗？作者: qinqinli 时间: 2003-10-19 16:52
或者有其他单身父亲想带孩子出去玩的，请联系：qinqinli18@hotmail.com 周末最好，我很喜欢小孩，英文讲的不错，另外，我是女的。作者: qinqinli 时间: 2003-10-19 16:55
我不是在此找女朋友, 只是从心理学角度考虑.小孩在成年人的男女平均条件下更好一些. 我自己也需要熟悉环境，交点朋友。作者: Liping Liu 时间: 2003-10-19 21:21
chouchoutrain,
我来蒙好几年了，但从有了儿子好像感觉没有了自己的生活，也许孩子们做了朋友后，有时候我想把孩子“扔”在你那里，让你帮着照着呢，但这可不是我不想做母亲的含义。对于任何事，我不会想那么多，也不会想得很复杂！作者: angel_f 时间: 2003-10-20 12:25
hey~~~i am a single mom,my son is 2 year old,i wanna study french and english quickly,then i wanna find a job, and i also wanna have my own time even though i am not so young, but my heart is still young and wanna enjoy my life.however,it is pretty difficult because of my son, i can't do anything i want,everyday all of my time just spend for my son,so somtimes it is stressful for me.maybe you could think i am not a very good mom,( maybe.) but i still love my son very much!!how can i do??for my future??作者: angel_f 时间: 2003-10-20 12:33
sorry, because i don't know how to type in chinese,so i try to write in english,even though my english is too poor.....作者: train 时间: 2003-10-20 21:52
Lily,
世界的美丽是由善良的人们所造就, 那种灿烂将永远在我的心中回荡.作者: DNA 时间: 2003-10-21 00:03
A single father looking for a friend for his son doesn’t matter boy or girl. Although he emphasis he is not looking for a girl friend, he refuses a father to bring his son to play with his son, he also refuses a mother (but not a single mother) to bring her son to play with his son. He said “从心理学的调度来说, 小孩在成年人的男女平均条件下更好一些” he also said “我有适合家庭外出游玩的车, 交通工具不成问题”. The question is: “Is this single father really looking a friend for his son???” Or, He’s looking for a single mother for himself?
Be careful, someone really know how to use female's motherhood emotion to…………….
:mad: :mad: :mad:作者: Guest1 时间: 2003-10-21 00:13
蒙城还是有这么多好心的人,感动!
对于单身父亲或母亲带一个年龄还小的孩子,实在不容易,本人亲有体会,最后还是选择了把孩子送回去了.虽然有些心狠,但也是不得以.孩子在也有孩子的乐趣,是一个人怎么也没法体会的到的.不过,把孩子送回去,也不失为一个考虑.等自己安排好自己的事情,再可以接过来.
尤其两三岁的孩子,真不敢想象!
如需要什么能帮的上的,支一声.作者: 123ss 时间: 2003-10-21 00:21
真不懂你单身是怎么生出孩子来的作者: zwgf0620 时间: 2003-10-21 00:40
hi,
i have a daughter 31/2, she speaks very good english and a little french. good both chinese. we live in downtown area, if you like, you can contact me at ziweimelaine@yahoo.com they can play together at the weekend.作者: midtown 时间: 2003-10-21 09:17
DNA,
Why should you bother others? There are better things to do in life.
Chouchou Train merely posted a message for his son. If you want to be a judge, then go to study at McGill first and then apply for the position at the Supreme Court of Canada but make friends with Paul Martin's son first otherwise you will not be appointed even if you have obtained your PhDs.作者: qinqinli 时间: 2003-10-21 10:06
some mother send me email saying want to send her kids to play with me which means i must take care of her kids the same time of course. first of all, i must thank you for your trust. but i can not trust myself, i am not able to do that for you, i am afraid. just as i said, i just come here, i even don't sure the metro stations and i need sb to take care of me when i go out. i go over my post and found i make a mistake, i want to say: "i am not trying to find a boyfriend" but i said mistakenly "i am not here trying to find a girl friend" maybe that cause misunderstanding, sorry.作者: qinqinli 时间: 2003-10-21 10:39
To the mothers who has kids to be taken care of:
why don't you contact with Chouchou Train? he is a better candidate than me: has a car, familiar with enviroment, generous...作者: Eddie Lau 时间: 2003-10-21 19:23
I think what DNA said is reasonable! He just warn that girls should be careful!!! It is nothing wrong with these words!
But anyway, Chouchou Train is not seeking grils who are single. So it is those single mothers with kids should be careful about his real intention!作者: naivenaive 时间: 2003-10-22 09:30
his real intention...maybe is to find some single mother to help each other, to care about each other (including each other's kids and family and maybe make a happy family later on...which is the best intention in the world, isn't it?
moreover, it is not as easy to have some "bad" intention on mature mothers as on some young naive beautiful girls such as a 19-year-old international student being away from home, right?
just personal opinion.作者: train 时间: 2003-10-22 20:44
You two DNA and LAU really really have mental deficiencies. I strongly recommend you dip into St.Lawrence River to wash off your cheese first before opening up your foamy mouth.
Jump from a high-rise building's roof if you have not yet learnt how to swim in this country.
By performing one of the above skills, you will understand what life is... the memory will be eternal.
There are many places to screw around with women in this part of the world and I am trying to understand your reasoning…. Then I concluded that you need vitamins which are on sales now at Jean Coutu.作者: 敏 时间: 2003-10-28 01:58
其实何必对CHOUCHOU TRAIN如此的怀疑,就算他有别的企图对于一个单身父亲来说也是正常的.我想他也只不过是想一来可以为孩子找个玩伴,二来也想借孩子与孩子交流的机会让大人也借机有一个交往与认识的机会而已,如此的方式虽然意义隐藏了一些,但很多事情正是在潜移默化中顺其自然,中国人爱好含蓄,不想对别人和自己伤害太大,但聪明的人是会明白其中真正的含义的.以这种方式既可以看大人对孩子的爱心,也可在交往中发现彼此真正共同的地方.如果没有那么也就算是为孩子间的交往拓开一个领域而已.希望有孩子的单身母亲给孩子也给自己一个机会,我想他应该是一个不错的人,一个能如此爱孩子的人,也应该会有责任、成熟的爱生活与可以与他相爱的人的。作者: cost 时间: 2003-10-28 22:05
To DNA and LAU, don't be upset with Chouchou Train's words, I agree with you guys. However, it is up to reader's own judgement to accept the offer or not. If one cannot tolerate any different opinion, you really have to think more of his/her interntion.作者: ABC123XYZ 时间: 2003-10-29 17:51
funny guy, look at the responses, you will know what personality he has, but it seems to be a good approach of promotion as so many ladies are interested in what he said, chinese are born politicians!作者: 970622 时间: 2003-10-31 00:54
Malade.作者: mariangela 时间: 2003-11-1 00:34
my email: sunflower8_city@yahoo.ca作者: Timon 时间: 2003-11-1 12:54
Chouchou Train,
How are things going? Did you find some partners for your son? Don't care what other people said, as long as you love your son.作者: slf 时间: 2003-11-1 20:44
Chouchou Train :
You are really a good father.
I have a 3 year old daughter who loves to play with children at the same age.
Pls contact me @ :
shirleyshe_2003@hotmail.com
Thank you.作者: train 时间: 2003-11-1 22:54
As life carries onward, I am continuously touched by those friends who have generously offered their support.
The essence of love is life. The blossom of being is enthusiasm.
The memory of the past few weeks will always be cherished. Thank you all, my friends! I have now got a short list for my son, who will be thrilled to play with his little buddies.作者: peace2003 时间: 2003-11-2 12:45
我非常理解ChouChou Train的心情， 小孩子需要小朋友， 这对小孩子的身心健康非常重要， 父母的爱代替不了这种需求。单亲家庭的小孩更需要玩伴。 我建议ChouChou Train 组织一下， 节假日大家聚在一起， 小孩可以在一起玩， 大人也可以交流一下， 放松一下，生活需要调节，单亲家庭也可以把生活过的很精彩。另外，我住在CDN区，我想给小孩找一些玩伴，我们也可以分担照顾小孩， 我女儿4 岁多了。有同样想法的妈妈请跟我联系， 我的E-mail是：lily_may2000@yahoo.com.hk作者: angel1234 时间: 2003-11-2 12:55
To:peace2003, are you a single mom? if you are, i need your opinion!!!作者: angel1234 时间: 2003-11-2 13:11
because my friend is in big trouble now, i wanna help her, but i am not single mom,i don't know how i can do for helping her, so that's why i would like to ask something to any single mom here, and reply me as soon as possible please!!!!!thank you so much!!i look forward to hearing from you,single mom!!!作者: slf 时间: 2003-11-8 13:18
非常同意peace2003 的观点。我愿意成为其中的一员。
shirleyshe_2003@hotmail.com