hawker

来到了这里，见到自己朝思暮想的人，但一切都改变了，曾经的温柔丝守，不离不弃在现实面前变的支离破碎，不是不想去想，不是不敢去爱，而是一切的想法都在现实里变的无力，来到这里的人失去了在爱面前的坚持，省下的是最现实的想法---无论如何都要留下来，为什么要强求去得到其实不属于自己的东西呢？其实，是怕，怕困难，怕死，怕失去面子，怕回到自己的家，为了留下来，可以放弃尊严，放弃自己，放弃一切，可以轻易的忘却曾经的刻骨铭心，这才是我们，真正的我们，幸福生活中的我们是无法体会真正的自己的，来到了这里我们被彻底暴光，现实逼我们自私，只有这样才可以活下来，应该说可以不怎么困难的活下来。没有人在想到会伤害真正关心和深爱自己的人，无情的现实吞噬了一切美好的谎言，在风中所有的憧憬慢慢凋零。没人去争取，取而代之的是完全的无所谓和随欲而安，然而一切都只是逃避的理由，不是无所谓，不是随缘，是不敢去争取，不敢去想（待续）

whoknowsxyz

The comments -- beautifully written obviously by a highly educated person -- are haplessly filled with sadness and emotional bewilderment about the cruel reality of our private life. Reality ****s! Yes, we feel being betrayed when our significant others broke up with us; yes, we feel upset when life does not go exactly the way we expected;and yes, we feel depressed when one of our "friends" failed us, or for whatever reasons otherwise (the bizarrely cold winter must be one of them!). Yet, I believe our true friends still care about us. There's no reason why we should be affraid to face the music and why we should reject friendship or love; our friends might well have thought that they must have done something wrong! Don't let them down; don't let them feel guilty which they never deserve! Each of us should avoid from following the steps of those who have betrayed or failed us. Further, don't pre-judge yourself or others. Kiss away the pain and go on!

ChinaStory

Nice English and Chinese.

shenglan

一个人在逃避什么，不是别人是自己
一个人最害怕什么，不是寒冷是孤寂

wangminjiang

that is the way life goes.....

风清扬

Loving or being loved at a time is beauty. As always, everything changes except change though.

yoda

To hawker, pls go through the book, "who moved my cheese", I'm pretty sure you can dig out something useful for you. Good Luck!

shenglan

快刀斩乱麻         

whoknowsxyz

Life is transitory, so is love! The initiator's overwhelming and truthful perplexed feelings were expressed in a way that is so powerful, beautiful and artistic that each word can be savoured for a long time. Any more articles or comments on this subject?

hawker

本意为伤心的故事不会再有人眷顾，因为世间伤心太多，但依然看到了许多朋友的回复，谢谢大家，悲伤的恋情写出来不是想让大家给我同情而是想给自己带来希望。仿佛世间真爱不在，我只有慢慢去寻。