甑士隐

加拿大的法律有没有关如何教训自已的孩子不违法的规定？下列情况也属违法吗？
   1。打屁股
   2。打耳光
   3。大声训斥

妻子说这些行为在加拿大都是违法的，并称可以报警。请问这是真的吗？我们只能和风细雨地教自已的孩子吗？

wuwu

好象是可以打PP的, 只要别太重不留下痕迹就行  :p  
另外, 别给其他人看见.   wink

ben ben

胡说，别人没看见，对孩子的心理也是有影响的。另外孩子如果对老师讲了，你也麻烦了。教育要技巧。英文叫guidance technique.
为什么不去图书馆查查相关的书或杂志文章看看？

wuwu

benben：为什么说我胡说呀？  :p  中国人相信棍棒出孝子的哦。小时候我老爸也打我。我似乎没什么心里阴影嘛？

话说回来，大多数时候你可以讲道理，但有的时候小孩子就是无理取闹，不打他你拿他没折。

老黄牛

Parents in Canada have a legal duty to provide their children with the necessities of life until they reach age 16. It is illegal in Canada to abuse your children, either physically, psychologically, or sexually. All forms of child abuse are serious crimes. Abuse can include spanking children enough to cause bruises, terrorizing or humiliating them, any kind of sexual contact, and neglect. Police, doctors, teachers and children's aid workers will take action if they think children are being harmed. In serious cases, children can be taken away from their parents. Some cultural practices are not acceptable in Canada. For instance, all forms of female genital mutilation (FGM) are prohibited under Canadian law. (上述是加拿大法律最权威的解释,即可以轻打,只要不属于abuse就可以)

   因此呜呜说得最有道理.sunshine,中国有句古训即"子不教父之过",把小孩送到教会去受教育,有用吗?即使没用也不能怪"万能的上帝",上帝的很多子民不也出了问题吗?

discovery

i think that spanking a parents right!!!
but spanking  should be only used  as a last option!
i was spanked when i was young, maybe i deserved it a few of those times  :rolleyes:   (realLy??  :confused:  ).

i think the canadian government  is way too involved in saying how a parent sees fit to raise their child, and parents are too nervouse to disiplin  their children, and because of it, children and teens/pre-teens especially are getting away with too much!

呜呜 is right! parents might only disiplin  their children behind closed door!!!

also,in canada, classroom discipline is lacking. teachers may lack the skills, confidence, or courage to discipline students.
养不教，父之过。教不严，师之惰。