[联谊] French from France available for wedding

msb · 发表于 2003-8-20 06:41

Hello,

I'm french from France who live in Quebec since 1996.
I'm available for wedding with an asian woman.

I'm 35 years old, I'm honest, nice, gentle, well educated and I want to take care of a nice woman.
You have to be well educated, faithful (I have been bad experience with an other chinese girl about it), honest.

Even if you are still in China, or you don't have a permanent visa, if you are sincere and really want to found a family, write me back at freeman@videotron.ca

msb

PS: My english is not really good, thanks to be indulgent.

freshland · 发表于 2003-8-20 10:22

"...faithful (I have been bad experience with an other chinese girl about it)..."

sounds like you mean your bad experience came from a chinese girl who you think is faithless ?

msb · 发表于 2003-8-20 12:16

In according to my experience, yes.
But you know, in every culture some women are faithful and some unfaithful.
I thought just that in the Chinese culture values that was not true. In any case, she was not close to the Chinese traditional values, she of it is even very distant.

Before, I thought that the Chinese were better than the other races, their culture is so marvellous.

It's not because I had a very bad experience with her that I believe every chinese woman is like her.

freshland · 发表于 2003-8-20 14:45

"Before, I thought that the Chinese were better than the other races, their culture is so marvellous."

what you thought is true. don't change your mind. absolutely its culture is marvellous. if you go to japan, korea and some other countries in the east or south-east of asia, you can feel/see the influence and trail of chinese culture.

traditional faithful chinese girls are not only amazing to the foreigners, but also to our chinese guys. but as i know, there are some problems here when foreigners go with chinese girls. those foreigners like those chinese girls follow traditional values in their moral(for example, faithful) but follow western style in their daily life. let me give you some examples, some foreigners even ask their chinese girl friends go dutch when they eat out. i'd say chinese guys will never do this. some foreigners even ask their chinese girl friends share the rental fee when they live in the same appartment. they call this as western life style. but you know in china this is a shame thing for a guy. sure most of the time chinese girls don't care too much on sharing the expenses with their foreign boyfriends or even their foreign husbands. but, you might not know, paying bills by boyfriends, every asset of a husband belonging to his wife as well are also within chinese traditional values. some other may include husbands helping their wifes to do housework at home...

i don't know the case about you and your former chinese girl friend. the above just let you have some ideas on going with chinese girls. when something happens, it's usually hard to say the reason just comes from one side(notice: i am not talking about your case).

Laurent · 发表于 2003-8-20 14:50

msb,
Welcome back! :cool:

jadis · 发表于 2003-8-20 14:57

Laurent, welcome back.

Msb, bonne chance.

Laurent · 发表于 2003-8-20 15:35

Where are you now, jadis? :cool:

jadis · 发表于 2003-8-20 15:50

Je suis encore dans l'Ile de France, malheureusement.

Laurent · 发表于 2003-8-20 15:56

Pourquoi "malheureusement"?

jadis · 发表于 2003-8-20 15:59

Bin

,...une bonne question! :rolleyes:

Sinon, ça va, toi?