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Post by yunyi
哪个男人都可能离开你,只有你自己的孩子永远都会深爱着你的.

many of them will have sex at 14 and leave you at 16.

The others leave you a bit later.

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Post by cloudrain200

中国女性对孩子的占有欲和情感的依赖性太高.养育孩子是应尽的责任,华人西人都一样. 但是, 对孩子的期望值高的离谱,对孩子的情感依赖忘却了自我,这种心态和思维潜意识的在左右中国女性的行为和思维.

those women never had a life.

poor them.
even poorer their kids.

but this is canada. the kids will say "screw you" to their manipulative parents and go their own way when they are 18.

the beauty of freedom.

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Post by ldh


一直以为这世界上还是好男人,负责任的男人居多,

do you mean that if you go on the street and survey 100 single men, at least 51 of them would love to marry a single woman with kid?

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Post by montrealpost
I agree with everything u said except the following, ha!

Believe it or not, I knew a Quebecer in his early 30's (long time ago now) said:
'It'll be nice to find a girlfriend . . . . .  double income, better life . . . . .
Having a kid (i.e.the woman) is not bad neither, instant family.'

Before questioning about men's attitude for your kid, ASK YOURSELF what have u  done for your own mom FIRST.  Good night!!

of course i believe you. who doesnt know a quebecer who would love to marry a woman with kid?

but did you try to answer my 51/100 question by 1/1?

and when you say "belive it or not", i guess you also agree it is hard to find 51 out of 100.

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Post by asun
Yes ,A man never select a  life-partner with a tail INTETIONALLY.
But this time ,u r logically wrong(What a pity to me,I find the near door uncle I used to honored is arrested for rape--just a joke)
The man  fell in love with the charming lady FIRST,and then found the sad fact that of a little "third".Oh my goddess ,that would be the worst situation to me .
Love  is a disease,meet the cure.

I have not presented any logic here.

The only thing i wanted to know is that if MORE THAN HALF of the men would still want to marry a woman when they had known she was with kids beforehand. or if i havd misunderstood the meaning of "负责任", then lets change the question to "how many men would still want to marry a woman after he found out there was a kid".

so i have asked the question to the person who made the conclusion  "一直以为这世界上还是好男人,负责任的男人居多"

who would love to answer my 51/100 question? backed by survey results not imaginations pls.

by the way do you guys even know that in Canada, 43% of married couple end up getting divorced?

wow.the world is full of responsible people.

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Post by montrealpost
Your question or possible answer is IRRELEVANT.  It doesn't matter what the world think or do, I only care about the one I've picked (=the 1 man I'm interested in).  Nice weekend!

我企图探讨的是男人的共性。
你跳出来举一个例子。然后说你只关心这个男人，然后说我irrelevant...

如果你根本说的跟我不是一个事情，何必偏要reply to me?

人家说了事情，你说个其他事情，结果说人家说的“跟你说的没关系。”

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Post by ldh


如果是我做调查，我想我的问题会是：当您爱上一个女人时，而她又有过婚姻并带着孩子，这时，你会选择离开她还是会选择继续和她在一起？这时候这个男人的答案则代表了这个男人的本质，能说明很多的问题，至于答案的可能性的百分比我实在不敢乱猜。。。。。

最后还是想说，一直以为这世界上还是好男人，负责任的男人居多。这句话和楼下所设计的街头采访好象不搭界吧？？！！

既然你实在不敢乱猜百分比，你凭什么下什么结论“好男人多”？

你希望世界和平，世界就和平了？

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看来这是个充满爱的世界。

各位男同胞，我号召一下今天就去casino好好赌一把。输了没关系的，好比你今天晚上输了100万，不用担心的，娶个女人帮忙一起还。

只要她是真心爱你的，就应该爱你的全部，包括负债。

爱是伟大的，无私的，100万算什么。

同理可证，任何负面情况都是irrelevant。只要有爱，真心的爱，可以解决一切。

这种伟大的道理谁都懂。不喜欢讲究理性和现实的人可以用爱淹死一切。

43%的离婚率，世界充满了爱。

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Post by VVMM


但是, 爱确实是一切问题的答案.

火星上有没有生物？