I hope you understand a family-oriented personality is a part of our Chinese culture. If a Chinese lady cutting off from her culture, I don't know how much family-oriented character will leave, or how bad she will feel..... Of course, I will recommend that any couple in their cross-cultural marriage can respect each others' cultures, and try to mingle two cultures in their daily life, or even their social life. Trust me, this is the hardest part. I don't know whether it is worthwhile to date ladies in different cultures, just for her family-oriented character. For family-oriented females, I heard a lot of non-Chinese ladies said, they have this character. |