A cross-cultural marriage? A hurdle to climb.....
Are you going to eat like a Chinese? Going for instant noodle and preserved yum-yum Chinese food?
Are you going to think like a Chinese? Listening to the Chinese folks songs or Pop Songs?
Why are there many many of these ladies in Montreal who are fluently bilingual, and you feel nothing for them? Now, why do you suddenly have a feeling for some Chinese ladies who are hanging around in a Chinese community web-site?
Please don't make me wrong here, I don't mean to criticize, but I like to make everything making sense. A marriage is always an union between two families, including their cultures, and I hope you don't mean to cut your Chinese wife-to-be from her cultural roots. If you think so, that will be very unwise to make that happens. |