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BIO, you are living in dream... what you tried to express was just like what from a man or woman just fell in love ... in this case, for a long years couple, when a husband asked his wife for a critical decision regarding their life and future...so funny thing was BIO thought his wife was like playing a game in answering such critical decision in a anti-directional way???!!!
you are crazy. They are not lovers in high school, the girl replied no...while a boy was asking if she wanted to stay overnight with him... no... they are long years couple, got married in China and made critical decision to move to Canada and for now there is another critical decision to make ... to live ...
You mentioned "believe" ... or we can say "trust"... Actually few people can find trust with their spouses... in case they live separately for a long time ...
A big question mark for minivan was they might have ignored each other or got hidden conflicts for quite a long time... and American job issue was nothing but a fuze to breakout or to be straigyforward => minivan will be dumped for sure ... seems minivan loves his wife tough, however his wife doesn't have the same feeling...so sad...
minivan, pls think, you have to make decision by yourself now... to work in the States to enjoy your own life and lose your wife in the near future for sure... OR .... for LOVE... you gonna stay in Montreal... to fight.. ? fight for love ... for living and respect from your wife...
Post by BIO
Hey watch out! We are in this post is trying to help MiniVan to find out the problem.NOT BREAK UP HIS FAMILY! pay attenion & responsibility in your conversation!
To MiniVan:
Women is not the same as men,thier acts are always following by feelings,emotions.Even sometimes they say YES,but they hope the answer is NO.They say NO,the answer may YES. Women will not directly tell you thier mind.They like give hints or become angry to let you know something are wrong there. think about it! You must to believe your wife. |
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