wwwbbb

我想在这个城市里，也许有象我一样的留守女人，今天我很难过，在这里只希望有人分担

我从来没有想现在这样难过。我这一天都在哭。实在忍不住。送走你们我就一直坐在电脑前面上网，打扑克牌，听音乐，连饭也没吃，可是我什么事情也干不了，没有办法。

我看见烟灰缸，看见乱七八糟的床，看见女儿的玩具，房间里的一切，房间里的每一个角落，我就忍不住的使劲哭，忍不住，想着我要一个人在这儿呆着，我真的受不了。真的不要分开，整个房间充满了你们的笑声，你们的声音，我不能干任何事情。。。。。。

今天，我就只剩下我一个人了，我怎么办？我从来这儿就作好了思想准备，可是我还是不能忍受，KKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK，我觉得我快要疯掉，快要崩溃！

chenzi

Please don't be sad. two days later, you would be better. you could find something to do and forget that. sure, I am a married lady. I hope you to get better. because I had the same feeling and problem as you before.

nightmontreal

How are you now? Much better?

My wife still stays in China. Like you, I miss my family too. C'est la vie.

asdfdsa

I am more miserable than you, i am divorced, I feel all what you describe, communicate more if you do want to, it will relieve you. mercy you indeed

QC

With time going, and knowing more people, everything should be better.

begood9

把心情调节好，你仍然要生活，学习，工作。广交朋友，多做户外活动。一切的一切都不是世界末日。人都会有挫折，别人的比你还难。给人聊一聊或许你会找回你的自信。磨练能使人更坚强。

choux

Don't be so sad. You know you are not the only person in this kind of situation. Be courrage. Tomorrow will be better! Please beleive that. This is the only reason which keeps me up everyday since more than 3 years

chenzi

hi, wwwbbb, how are you right now? do you feel better? i surf internet as i came back home. i want to know how you are? i really hope you are better now.

md4

superboy
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Member # 8610

  posted 08-10-2002 23:13                  
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I can't post my reply for the 留守女人的哭泣, so I put my reply here.

Try to pray to Jehovah, ask him to strengthen you.

Fact is fact, even we cry, we don’t eat….. we can’t change the situation. (But I know we all are full of emotion and its your feelings)

Think in a positive way, instead of thinking how sad you are actually you can take advantage of you situation. Now you are “single”, you don’t need to spend time to take care of your family, you can do something for yourself, to learn something that you like, you have more time to read, to learn knitting, cooking and improve your language skills…….. Also, you can spend more time on your hobby.

You can set some goals for yourself and for your family, such as: knit a sweater for your daughter and husband; learn the haircut, to improve your skills and languages.

So one day when you see them again you can show them what you have done or what you have prepared for them. Do something that they can proud of you.

5I5J

明天会更好！