airbus2002

五分钟之前，在地铁站遭遇了一段非常气愤的经历。

地铁到站后，我跟随着人群坐电梯出站。身前是一个老太太，两手提着购物袋。我让她先踩上电梯。过一了会儿，她发现我站在她身后，嘴里示意让我往前走。我看她提着东西，几乎塞住了另一侧的过道，就说：“That’s okay.” 谁知，这老太太竟然白了一眼，连上三个台阶，边走边说:“…Lazy Chinese…”

我环顾四周，发现没有别的中国人，顿时一股愤怒油然而生，仿佛当众被人打了一记响亮的耳光。我一没有撞到她，二没有挡她的路，凭什么污辱我。我两大步赶上去。

“Excuse me, ma’am! What did you say just now? LAZY CHINESE!!! How could you say that?”

老太太没想到我会追上去，吓了一跳。“I want you to pass, but you didn’t.”

“That’s why you say LAZY CHINESE?”我真的气坏了，义正辞严地质问她。“You must apologize to me. I have the right to stand after you. I did nothing wrong to you. But YOU are so rude, impolite!!! You offensed me with such insulting words!!!”

老太太开始不说话了。这时候，我身旁过去一个老外，听到了老太太说这样的话，说了一句 “My God!”

“Apologize to you? No, I won’t. I am 80 years old. I shall never apologize to you.”老太太想了半天，说出这么几句。

“Really? You seems like a decent and kind old lady, but actually you are not. I feel insulted by what you said. Am I not allowed to stand on the stairs? First, I did not block your way; second, I did not touch you. This is Canada, you cannot discriminate people like that.”

这时候，已经走了到地铁检票出口处。我有机会冲到她前面去，继续和她争论。她估计有点怕了，过检票机的时候，东西都被挂住了。我看了一下，过去帮她弄下来。“I am telling you, an old lady like you shall never do that again. As a law student, I am very serious. If I got some witnesses tonight, you will be sued!!! Definitely!!! Did you hear that?”

老太太有点吱唔了，不过令我没想到的是，她居然拍着胸口说了这么一句。“I said that because some Chinese told me they don’t like Canada, they don’t belong to Canada.”

我听了更来气，“That’s their problem, not mine. But you should not insult Chinese people like that. Canada is a law country. You must have been living in Canada for a long….”

“No, I am not. I….”老太太回答。现在她已经不走了，直接看着我说话。

“Okay, then I warn you. Never speak like that! You might get sued in court! Okay?”我就这样盯着她的眼睛，严肃且大声地告诉她。

“Okay.”老太太点点头。

“Thank you. Have a nice day.”

这是来加拿大两年多的时间，第一次当面被人污辱，真得气坏了。不知道同胞们遇到这种情况时，会不会也冲上去理论。但我真得为那些对本地人说不喜欢加拿大或者加拿大不属于他们的同胞们脸红。如果真的有这样的想法，要么请你离开，要么你不要告诉本地人，免得他们用同样的话语来污辱我们。

linyu

bravo, buddy. i have to second you! if i came across such a nasty character, i would just do the same to straighten things out. don't get let down by those who think otherwise though. you will never run short of backup in a highly diversified chinese community.

give you fives and hurrah again.

had

for  rude person, only give them rude words, that's all.

鬼鬼见愁愁

可恨之人必有可怜之处。

瞧这老太太，80岁人了还居然要自己大包小包提东西，拿养老金居然还养不起车，在魁省居然只会用英文骂人，百分百是个非常可怜的人。可能她直到100岁还是这么劳苦，算了别理她吧，她活着本身就是一种惩罚……


还有，以后还是被人骂“***chinese"的话，你先客气地告诉她你是日本人，然后上去骂她祖宗十八代、朝她脸上吐口水、把她的东西扔到垃圾桶里，最后说－－“日本人就这样子，你咬我呀，靠！”

莫名其妙

我想问一下楼主，如果是几个青壮年小伙子，那你怎么办呢？其实我觉得中国人就是没有一个自己的组织出面解决这些问题。因该像犹太人那样，谁敢欺负自己人就 有该组织出面解决，这才是根本。本人在公交车，地铁站立多次听到黑人中学生大声骂中国人，白人说中国人懒，不工作。没法还嘴，一是英语不好，另一是对方人 多势众，，人高马大，没法正面冲突。

airbus2002

如果是年轻人，黑人，我也照样上去和他们理论。我能冲上去和这个老太太理论，当时并没有多想，只是觉得受到了莫大的污辱。我没有做错任何事情，为什么要受到如此不公的待遇？

你的顾虑我可以理解，是不是担心和那些目中无人、教养不佳的青年人们辨论会引发手脚？至少我不怕，我在学校里就曾经和别人争论过，告诉他们用这种stereotype说中国人是不礼貌的。如果对方敢动手，吃亏的肯定是他们，而不是你。当然，如果他们尾随你，跟到偏僻地方揍你一顿，你无法找到目击者，也没有机会报警，那另当别论。

有组织当然会解决问题，但组织不是万能的。当你的权利受到侵犯，自己都不伸张，还指望别人给你权利和尊重么？或许，我的这次遭遇有些不同，如果只是其他人泛泛谈论中国人如何，他们的言论自由没有滥用到污辱人格的地步，我也不会干涉别人的谈话。但这一次不同，因为这个老太太是直接回头对我说了这样的话，矛头直接对着我，而我的确没有任何过错，为什么我要无端的咽下这口冤气？周围的人都听在耳朵里，看在眼里，如果我不去告诉这个老太太她的做法是多么无礼，其他的当地人是否也会认为，中国人真是软弱，可以随意地被凌辱。我相信，这个老太太今后绝对不会再这么随意的说CHINESE怎么怎么样。

加拿大是一个移民国家，她的文化多元性中包括了宽容的因素，这是权利保障的基础，这也是我为什么相信，即使我去和黑人或年青小伙子理论而被揍，我的权利也会得到救济。

helpwanted

Good job buddy, excellent!!!   I admire that!!!

What you did was so wonderful, bingo! K.O.! 100%! score! we applaud for you!

Just, don't get upset in such situation (at least not that upset), it's their fault and don't punish yourself for that. STAY CALM with unreasonable people...I know it's always easy to say than doing, but I'm putting efforts in it myself, and am getting better.

Together we'll be strong and proud. (today's Canadian Chinese)

rangersbec

airbus: you are well done! especially you can speak so fluently english when you critisize her. you are hero!

lee-gz

Bravo!!!!!

bookshoe

Post by airbus2002
五分钟之前，在地铁站遭遇了一段非常气愤的经历。

地铁到站后，我跟随着人群坐电梯出站。身前是一个老太太，两手提着购物袋。我让她先踩上电梯。过一了会儿，她发现我站在她身后，嘴里示意让我往前走。我看她提着东西，几乎塞住了另一侧的过道，就说：“That’s okay.” 谁知，这老太太竟然白了一眼，连上三个台阶，边走边说:“…Lazy Chinese…”

我环顾四周，发现没有别的中国人，顿时一股愤怒油然而生，仿佛当众被人打了一记响亮的耳光。我一没有撞到她，二没有挡她的路，凭什么污辱我。我两大步赶上去。

“Excuse me, ma’am! What did you say just now? LAZY CHINESE!!! How could you say that?”

老太太没想到我会追上去，吓了一跳。“I want you to pass, but you didn’t.”

“That’s why you say LAZY CHINESE?”我真的气坏了，义正辞严地质问她。“You must apologize to me. I have the right to stand after you. I did nothing wrong to you. But YOU are so rude, impolite!!! You offensed me with such insulting words!!!”

老太太开始不说话了。这时候，我身旁过去一个老外，听到了老太太说这样的话，说了一句 “My God!”

“Apologize to you? No, I won’t. I am 80 years old. I shall never apologize to you.”老太太想了半天，说出这么几句。

“Really? You seems like a decent and kind old lady, but actually you are not. I feel insulted by what you said. Am I not allowed to stand on the stairs? First, I did not block your way; second, I did not touch you. This is Canada, you cannot discriminate people like that.”

这时候，已经走了到地铁检票出口处。我有机会冲到她前面去，继续和她争论。她估计有点怕了，过检票机的时候，东西都被挂住了。我看了一下，过去帮她弄下来。“I am telling you, an old lady like you shall never do that again. As a law student, I am very serious. If I got some witnesses tonight, you will be sued!!! Definitely!!! Did you hear that?”

老太太有点吱唔了，不过令我没想到的是，她居然拍着胸口说了这么一句。“I said that because some Chinese told me they don’t like Canada, they don’t belong to Canada.”

我听了更来气，“That’s their problem, not mine. But you should not insult Chinese people like that. Canada is a law country. You must have been living in Canada for a long….”

“No, I am not. I….”老太太回答。现在她已经不走了，直接看着我说话。

“Okay, then I warn you. Never speak like that! You might get sued in court! Okay?”我就这样盯着她的眼睛，严肃且大声地告诉她。

“Okay.”老太太点点头。

“Thank you. Have a nice day.”

这是来加拿大两年多的时间，第一次当面被人污辱，真得气坏了。不知道同胞们遇到这种情况时，会不会也冲上去理论。但我真得为那些对本地人说不喜欢加拿大或者加拿大不属于他们的同胞们脸红。如果真的有这样的想法，要么请你离开，要么你不要告诉本地人，免得他们用同样的话语来污辱我们。

airbus2002,你真是好样的!!

你给咱们挣面子了,那可是温文尔雅的胡温背几句诗词不可比拟的!

谢谢你,支持你!!