Gd luck

the life is that when you lose it, you can't find it back.you select this route, you can't select others.

olddog

“无欲则刚！”
听来似乎刺耳，试试看才知道真的管用。
这是每个人走向自我完善的必由之路。

gll

我同意NAM的看法。也对BEIJIXING表示同情。作为比你大几岁的哥哥，劝北极星几句。年轻人相聚的时候，要长眼睛。一旦看好了目标就要勇敢的探明其能否值得进一步深交的可能性。如果有主了，马上转移方向，不要原地踏步，陷入深潭。另个是不要当花瓶，香草，要敢于表达自己的感受，让那男友知道你的感受。否则就会再次失去良机。要知道，真正的好男人是比女人更显得要腼腆的。祝北极星好运！

lonely-single-m

I totally agree to Nam and Galx’s points of  view .   In the beginning, you know that man had married, you should not love him.  It will hurt you and that man’s wife and children  In this aspect, you are not a good girl.  
It is good for you to leave him and come here.  However, you still think about him, this is dangerous.  
  :confused:    :confused:    :confused:  On the other hand,  That man had already married and he deceived his wife and loved you, do you think this kind of person is reliable?  The answer is not.

caiyunfei21

北极星，看了你的故事，我相信你是一个善良的好女孩，很多事情的发展不是我们可以控制的，感情的事情很难说谁对谁错，正所谓爱过方知情深，痛过方知情重。过去的事情就让他过去吧，不要让过去的伤痛牵绊了你前进的脚步，希望你早日遇到你的真命天子@_@

getyou

I want to make love with you

gaaag

getyou,吃了晚饭了吗?
吃饱了,洗洗角,早点睡觉去吧啊!  :rolleyes:

apple 21

北极心@你好
你的故事很凄凉!我想任何一个女孩在夜晚独自一人看你的故事,都会为之动容的.
爱是没有错的,感情只要是真诚的,都会得到别人的尊重的!
你没有错,他也没有错,不是麽?
第一个男人,曾经要和你天长的久,可见他爱你之深
第二个男人,不敢面对真实的自己,可见他爱的懦弱
其实,你怕的人是你自己---你太善良了!
你是个很优秀的女孩!你会有个美好的未来的!
也许找个爱你胜过你爱他的男人会更适合你!
真的!珍惜未来吧!

odds

Where is Wang8, why nobody stops those kinds of bullshit?
In this world, there is only one principle -- get what you want. Fight to death to get what you want. Be responsible to your lover's wife?? Come on, give me a break. It's just loser's excuse. Love both married men whom you barely know? Come on, give me a break, your true love is yourself, being damped yourself.  
To your third man, remember to make love with him before any thoughts.

christine68

爱是有原则的，聪明的女人应该明白，爱上一个不该爱的人，也许他比你还痛苦，那又何必呢？
    有些感觉，冲动就让它永远留在心里好好享受好了。  wink