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爱在心里成长
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift. When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.
RING!
One day the phone rang, and the mother picked it up and said, "Hello?"
It was the girl!!! The mother started to cry and said, "You don't know? He passed away yesterday..."
The line was quiet except for the cries of the boy's mother. Later in the day, the mother went into the boy's room because she wanted to remember him. She thought she would start by looking at his clothes. So she opened the closet.
She was face to face with piles and piles and piles of unopened CDs. She was surprised to find all these CDs and she picked one up and sat down on the bed and she started to open one. Inside, there was a CD and as she took it out of the wrapper, out fell a piece of paper. The mother picked it up and started to read it. It said: Hi... I think U R really cute. Do u wanna go out with me? Love, Jocelyn.
The mother was deeply moved and opened another CD...
Again there was a piece of paper. It said: Hi... I think U R really cute. Do u wanna go out with me? Love, Jocelyn.
Love is... when you've had a huge fight but then decide to put aside your egos, hold hands and say, "I Love You." ( finished)
或许是上帝的安排,在最终找到知音之前,我们总要遇到一些不尽如意的人,只有这样,我们才能对知音这份礼物充满感激之情。
一道幸福之门关闭时,另一扇就会打开。我们经常太多太多地只看见关闭的门,而对开启的门却熟视无睹。
也许最好的朋友就是那些你坐在门廊下,看到的来回过往的行人。你与他们一言未语,走开时却感到好像有过最好的交谈。
无疑,一件东西只有失去时,我们才会懂得其真正的价值。同样,一件东西在得到之前,我们并没有意识到它的缺少。
将爱全部付出,并不能确保一定会得到回报。别指望爱有什么回报,耐心地等待它在你所爱的人的心里生根发芽,成长壮大。即使不会那样,也要感到满足,相信爱在自己心里成长。迷恋一个人只需要一分钟,喜欢一个人需要一个小时,爱上一个人需要一天,而忘记一个人则需要一辈子的时间。
不要追求华丽的外表,外表常常具有欺骗性。不要追求万贯家产,财富也会散尽。寻找那个可以使你微笑的人,只有微笑才能使黑暗的日子变得光明。寻找那个能够使你的心灵微笑的人。
叮铃铃铃!
有一天,电话铃响了,母亲接起电话:"喂?"
是那个女孩打来的!母亲伤心地哭了,她说:"你不知道吗?他昨天死了……"
电话线那端沉默了,只能听到母亲的抽泣声。那天晚些时候,母亲来到儿子的房间,她想念儿子了,就想看看他的衣服,于是打开了衣柜。
母亲看到的是衣柜里一大堆包好的CD,这些CD都没有打开过。母亲大吃一惊。她坐在床边,打开了一个包装,从包装盒中拿出CD时,盒里掉出一张小纸条,她拾了起来,上面写道:嗨,你好,我觉得你真的很可爱,愿意和我一起出去吗?乔斯林。
母亲深受感动,她又打开了一个CD盒……
里面仍有一张小纸条,上面都写着同样的话:嗨,你好,我觉得你真的很可爱,愿意和我一起出去吗?乔斯林。
爱是什么?当你做了巨大的思想斗争,最终决定抛开一切束缚时,那就攥紧手,说出"我爱你"吧。
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